Edging is a popular activity around JUB, there’s no secret there! It’s certainly a favourite of mine...
Early days
It started for me when I was a teenager, using my mother’s dial-up connection on AOL. The internet was a new and fascinating place, and I’d get stuck in a porn cycle for hours, jerking off in the living room to 10-second preview clips on twink-focused sites. Over time I developed my obsession with facials and cumeating. The more I found, the more I wanted to find more. This meant that I’d be toying with my cock for hours throughout the night, denying myself orgasm as I got hornier and hornier and lost myself to fixation. At this point in my life I didn’t specifically edge, I didn’t get close to the brink; I just slowly allowed myself to stay erect and keep clicking. Of course the eventual orgasm was amazing, which no doubt kicked off my appreciation for edging. But boy, did my dick ache afterwards!
The epiphany
Over the years I learnt what real edging was - that danger game of bringing oneself so close to climax but without tipping over. This, as we all know, takes some practice. Orgasm denial when it’s your own orgasm is not quite the same as when one person is dominating another, because it’s your own pleasure you’re toying with. But there is, of course, a different but perhaps more exquisite pleasure in the space where you’re hovering around the edge, the fuzzy-headed, all-consuming depths of arousal where all that exists is your cock and the filthy ideas that take over your mind. This is what I like to describe as a “psychological power play with yourself”, the two conflicting pulls of constraint and release, both and powerful as each other. There’s nothing quite like it.
The ejaculation
Don’t be fooled - I’m not talking about the climax here. Edgers of all levels will be familiar with the leaking of precum that comes with the activity. Personally I wish I could do it more. I let out more pre when I’m edging that during a quick wank, but some guys out there leak freely and abundantly and I wish I could do that because I absolutely love smearing my own pre on my lips - it gets me very horny. (It’s also a really good lube to apply to your nipples if you’re particularly aroused by that area). But further than this, I’ve found that if I edge for long enough, I’ve gotten to a point now that I can ejaculate some nice, creamy jizz without climaxing, meaning I can stay hard and carry on but - you guessed it - eat it up. The taste of cum is renowned for being better before you’ve climaxed and are still riding the arousal high. This just gets me going even more. The best technique I’ve found to achieve this is to break the session, allow myself to go limp with my balls still full, then quickly rub myself to the point I feel something physically coming through without the mental climax that comes with it. I still have to be careful not to allow myself to get too hard so it’s gotta be quick work, but I’m definitely mastering the nuance of it.
Extended sessions
So how long can I go for? Well, I previously mentioned breaking a session. This allows me to edge for a good 12 hours, give or take, with roughly 2-hour breaks in between to do productive, everyday things. However, denying yourself orgasm for 2-3 weeks is something that I highly recommend. You’ll find yourself not constantly aroused, but perpetually ‘in the mood’. Have a brief stroke at every opportunity you get - danger wanking is a great approach here. In your car, in the kitchen, in a public toilet - just have a quick stroke and relish in how horny you are. Each day or two, dedicate yourself to some proper edging for maybe an hour, but don’t overdo it. Set a date that you will commit to the climax and on that final day, have a session of a good few hours. The climax will be unbelievable.
I’d welcome your experiences below. This is a wonderful topic to share stories on!
Early days
It started for me when I was a teenager, using my mother’s dial-up connection on AOL. The internet was a new and fascinating place, and I’d get stuck in a porn cycle for hours, jerking off in the living room to 10-second preview clips on twink-focused sites. Over time I developed my obsession with facials and cumeating. The more I found, the more I wanted to find more. This meant that I’d be toying with my cock for hours throughout the night, denying myself orgasm as I got hornier and hornier and lost myself to fixation. At this point in my life I didn’t specifically edge, I didn’t get close to the brink; I just slowly allowed myself to stay erect and keep clicking. Of course the eventual orgasm was amazing, which no doubt kicked off my appreciation for edging. But boy, did my dick ache afterwards!
The epiphany
Over the years I learnt what real edging was - that danger game of bringing oneself so close to climax but without tipping over. This, as we all know, takes some practice. Orgasm denial when it’s your own orgasm is not quite the same as when one person is dominating another, because it’s your own pleasure you’re toying with. But there is, of course, a different but perhaps more exquisite pleasure in the space where you’re hovering around the edge, the fuzzy-headed, all-consuming depths of arousal where all that exists is your cock and the filthy ideas that take over your mind. This is what I like to describe as a “psychological power play with yourself”, the two conflicting pulls of constraint and release, both and powerful as each other. There’s nothing quite like it.
The ejaculation
Don’t be fooled - I’m not talking about the climax here. Edgers of all levels will be familiar with the leaking of precum that comes with the activity. Personally I wish I could do it more. I let out more pre when I’m edging that during a quick wank, but some guys out there leak freely and abundantly and I wish I could do that because I absolutely love smearing my own pre on my lips - it gets me very horny. (It’s also a really good lube to apply to your nipples if you’re particularly aroused by that area). But further than this, I’ve found that if I edge for long enough, I’ve gotten to a point now that I can ejaculate some nice, creamy jizz without climaxing, meaning I can stay hard and carry on but - you guessed it - eat it up. The taste of cum is renowned for being better before you’ve climaxed and are still riding the arousal high. This just gets me going even more. The best technique I’ve found to achieve this is to break the session, allow myself to go limp with my balls still full, then quickly rub myself to the point I feel something physically coming through without the mental climax that comes with it. I still have to be careful not to allow myself to get too hard so it’s gotta be quick work, but I’m definitely mastering the nuance of it.
Extended sessions
So how long can I go for? Well, I previously mentioned breaking a session. This allows me to edge for a good 12 hours, give or take, with roughly 2-hour breaks in between to do productive, everyday things. However, denying yourself orgasm for 2-3 weeks is something that I highly recommend. You’ll find yourself not constantly aroused, but perpetually ‘in the mood’. Have a brief stroke at every opportunity you get - danger wanking is a great approach here. In your car, in the kitchen, in a public toilet - just have a quick stroke and relish in how horny you are. Each day or two, dedicate yourself to some proper edging for maybe an hour, but don’t overdo it. Set a date that you will commit to the climax and on that final day, have a session of a good few hours. The climax will be unbelievable.
I’d welcome your experiences below. This is a wonderful topic to share stories on!
