so i want to btm for my bf yet everytime i do i get this pain that i can't stand after that when he starts moving i feel like pooping... how do you guys manage that feeling? today i practice with myself and it feels the same... any advice or info ? thankz
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Discomfort During Anal Sex: Question for Btm's
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I'm sure there are many topics on here that could give you better advice than this, but I'd say you should start small, and work your way up to a penis. Also, to quote Sue Johanson, use LOTS and LOTS of lube
I'm sure there are many topics on here that could give you better advice than this, but I'd say you should start small, and work your way up to a penis. Also, to quote Sue Johanson, use LOTS and LOTS of lube
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Most of the information you're looking for is in other posts on this forum.
In short, the problem that you're having is because during potty training, you were taught that a feeling of pressure of rectum means that you need to poop.
During anal sex, you're retraining your brain to perceive that same feeling of fullness as pleasure. It takes time.
You should buy a graduated small buttplug and lube and use it. It will help you train your ass to relax. If you jack off with the butt plug inserted, you will begin to associate the fullness with pleasure. Leaving it in for short periods of time will help you get used to the sensation of having something in your ass without needing to poop.
Most of the information you're looking for is in other posts on this forum.
In short, the problem that you're having is because during potty training, you were taught that a feeling of pressure of rectum means that you need to poop.
During anal sex, you're retraining your brain to perceive that same feeling of fullness as pleasure. It takes time.
You should buy a graduated small buttplug and lube and use it. It will help you train your ass to relax. If you jack off with the butt plug inserted, you will begin to associate the fullness with pleasure. Leaving it in for short periods of time will help you get used to the sensation of having something in your ass without needing to poop.
Re: question for btm's
Does anal sex have any effect on bowel movements? For some reason I am afraid it will mess me up if I do it. Someone once told me, if you receive it, you can't 'go' for a couple of days. I'm not sure what to believe?
Does anal sex have any effect on bowel movements? For some reason I am afraid it will mess me up if I do it. Someone once told me, if you receive it, you can't 'go' for a couple of days. I'm not sure what to believe?
Re: question for btm's
no, if anything it may help you go better. the only problem i have had is anything anal has made more "contours" to my anal region and it is much harder to wipe clean after a bowel movement. it has become necessary for me to always use a moist wipe or shower after. otherwise i feel gross.
no, if anything it may help you go better. the only problem i have had is anything anal has made more "contours" to my anal region and it is much harder to wipe clean after a bowel movement. it has become necessary for me to always use a moist wipe or shower after. otherwise i feel gross.
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Actually, it is quite the opposite. Anal sex can stimulate the bowel in some cases.
Why? Stool collects on the right side of your colon and it moves to the left when you are ready to have a bowel movement. Stimulation of the rectum (with a finger, dildo, penis) has a tendency to trigger your colon to start movement which will move any stool on from the right side to the left side, usually within 15 mins afterward.
Actually, it is quite the opposite. Anal sex can stimulate the bowel in some cases.
Why? Stool collects on the right side of your colon and it moves to the left when you are ready to have a bowel movement. Stimulation of the rectum (with a finger, dildo, penis) has a tendency to trigger your colon to start movement which will move any stool on from the right side to the left side, usually within 15 mins afterward.
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Re: question for btm's
Think of the millions of times gay men have had anal sex. If it were true, gay men would not have sex as much as they do
huh?
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there are an incredible amount of myths out there about anal sex.
let me re-phrase that
there are a huge number of myths about anal sex that are NOT credible. (when properly examined as opposed to the tales of fish wives!)
there are more heterosexual people who have anal sex, than the TOTAL number of gay men!
there are MEDICAL studies showing that gay men who engage in regular anal sex are NOT at risk of anal incontinence or similar problems.
Take the time to ask more questions, the truth is out there and it is way less frightening than the borg.
there are an incredible amount of myths out there about anal sex.
let me re-phrase that
there are a huge number of myths about anal sex that are NOT credible. (when properly examined as opposed to the tales of fish wives!)
there are more heterosexual people who have anal sex, than the TOTAL number of gay men!
there are MEDICAL studies showing that gay men who engage in regular anal sex are NOT at risk of anal incontinence or similar problems.
Take the time to ask more questions, the truth is out there and it is way less frightening than the borg.
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The picture that you provided shows the large intestine from the examiner's viewpoint. The cecum and ascending colon are on the patient's right and examiner's left. Stool accumulates there.
So, if you put your right hand on the place where your right leg joins your abdomen, that is where your appendix is.
When you feel that urgent feeling like you need to poop, that's because the stool has moved through the transverse colon and has collected in the descending colon and rectum. That feeling of fullness/pressure is what we teach children to be aware of so they know when to "go potty".
When you put a foreign object in your rectum (e.g. a dildo, finger, penis), you may also feel that same feeling of urgency. Your brain is reverting to that potty training and interpreting it like you need to go poop. It's something that you can "relearn" with time and instead interpret it as a pleasure sensation.
The picture that you provided shows the large intestine from the examiner's viewpoint. The cecum and ascending colon are on the patient's right and examiner's left. Stool accumulates there.
So, if you put your right hand on the place where your right leg joins your abdomen, that is where your appendix is.
When you feel that urgent feeling like you need to poop, that's because the stool has moved through the transverse colon and has collected in the descending colon and rectum. That feeling of fullness/pressure is what we teach children to be aware of so they know when to "go potty".
When you put a foreign object in your rectum (e.g. a dildo, finger, penis), you may also feel that same feeling of urgency. Your brain is reverting to that potty training and interpreting it like you need to go poop. It's something that you can "relearn" with time and instead interpret it as a pleasure sensation.
