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My boyfriend has a huge dick that's thick. I've never seen anything like it. It's like 11 inches. I was wondering if it would be safest way to go about taking something that big.
 
With larger equipment it is better to take it slow. It is amazing what we can take but it is important not to be to pushy and ensure that you DO NOT force things. Have Fun
 
Rijaal said:
My boyfriend has a huge dick that's thick. I've never seen anything like it. It's like 11 inches. I was wondering if it would be safest way to go about taking something that big.
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Do you mean it is 11 inches thick? I don't know what you would do with anything like that.
 
Length is usually just an issue for oral since most people have trouble suppressing their gag reflex. For anal, it really doesn't make much difference.

It's usually girth that causes problems for oral and anal.

Can you talk a little bit more about what you've done so far and what trouble you're having?
 
Length definitely can be an issue when the top bottoms out, so to speak! There's curvature back in there, and when a very long top is longer than the straightaway, pain can occur if the top's not careful.

But girth is the greater issue. First suggestion, get a series of ever increasing sized dildos and start working your way up. Second, lube is your best friend. Third, the top must enter slowly and try to enter exactly straight relative to the angle of your opening. The wrong angle can make any cock, even tiny ones, hurt like hell. The right angle, on the other hand, can make even an enormous cock slide right in.
 
I'm having this issue too.

I don't know what to believe anymore because my friend who is a student in medicine told me the other day that anal sex is bad for you. Period. Regardless of following safe measures, it is bad for you over time.

My boyfriend is really big, his dick is wide when it's hard and it's long too... but of course the width is the main problem. Is it going to hurt me? How do I know good pain from bad pain when he is penetrating me?

I've had to learn anal all over again it seems, and I still haven't been able to take him in. It makes things worse that his cock is long enough that it bends which makes it harder to get in.
 
Yes, go slowly, and please do not scare your partner by claiming that it hurts when you really mean that you are experiencing discomfort.

Anal sex is not for everyone, but for those who choose this most intimate way of expressing their affection it can be the stuff for memory. Communication, before, during, and in the afterglow is very important.
 
^ ^ That's sort of cliche and makes it sound like I am being rude to my bf who is topping (in this case.)

I want a response that goes through my post and comments and suggests things throughout.
 
Pain is not a good thing! Some discomfort, is normal. Communication is key to mutual pleasure, so tell him if it's hurting.
As far as his cock bending, try different positions.
Anal sex bad? There are those, yes even in the medical profession that feel it is. However, the majority of studies, articles and yes manuals (straight, bi and gay) say anal is safe, as long as it's done safely.
Generally the best way to start for me, especially if he's hung is for me to be on top, and lots of lube in me. Most of the guys I've played with were also very good at getting me "prepped" for penetration ;} .
 
just take your time and use Huge amounts of lube.
and you should take control of the pushing when it's going in..
 
blahblahblah2007 said:
I'm having this issue too.

I don't know what to believe anymore because my friend who is a student in medicine told me the other day that anal sex is bad for you. Period. Regardless of following safe measures, it is bad for you over time.

My boyfriend is really big, his dick is wide when it's hard and it's long too... but of course the width is the main problem. Is it going to hurt me? How do I know good pain from bad pain when he is penetrating me?

I've had to learn anal all over again it seems, and I still haven't been able to take him in. It makes things worse that his cock is long enough that it bends which makes it harder to get in.
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Anal sex has the potential to be damaging, but it's certainly NOT as he says it is. If that were the case, any form of anal penetration (colonoscopy, digital rectal exam, etc.) would face serious consideration before being implemented.

So long as people are safe and don't do things that can cause massive rectal trauma like pounding a two foot spike into it, there is nothing "bad for you over time" that will occur. The anus and mucus membranes stretch when they're given time to adjust during penetration and with proper lubrication, there should be no tearing.

Even large things, such as an 11 inch penis or dildo can go in if you take it very slow, listen to your body, and don't force it in.

I think your med student friend is either being instructed by a person who gets the heebee jeebies about butt sex or has huge hang ups about it himself.
 
i'm hoping to have this problem very soon ;) (but then again arnt we all)

as already stated yes lots of lube... if your monogomus i think that vaseline works best but its not condom safe!! and i find it alot easier to start off on top that way your in control. once youve got it there flip. and i diffenetly dont advocate any sort of drugs or poppers (gross) but i dont mind a cocktail or two to looosen up. but dont get sloppy

and most importantly if he really is 11 inches please remember to clean out!! and well before hand too!
 
my guy is as thick around as my wrist and the way to do it is gradually.

tell him up front you're not going to have him inside you for the next 20 or 30 times but that you're going to enjoy practising very much, and taking more or less each time. practising anal is waaay more fun than practising for your piano lessons so the slow approach shouldn't be an issue.

And just because he is big, the rules don't change - when you finally do take him all the way, it should be 100% comfortable and pleasurable for both of you. Let me repeat: 100% comfortable and pleasurable for both of you.

You don't have to put up with pain or discomfort because a) that would be stupid and b) you don't have to, if you let your body adjust over time.

Judging by my experience with my guy, we took it very slow, we played around back there, and for a long time we stopped to finish off some other way, and we knew that is what we were going to do before we even started... Now that I'm used to him, he can pound away full stroke and it feels great. I don't mean "it feels okay" or "i can tolerate it" i mean IT FEELS GREAT.

So, he's wider than average, but I'm longer than average. He has no problem with my width but I can still weird him out if I go in too far. He says its not exactly painful but I just shouldn't go all the way... But even holding back a bit at the end of a stroke, it feels awesome and it works for both of us.

This is definitely something where learning how to do it should be just as fun as doing it, so don't stress out, relax, take the pressure off and have fun.
 
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