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So I met this guy who I've started to like a lot. Our first date was akward second date was ok, and he kissed me at the end of the night. It was great :) I am the one who pursued him and asked him out both times. He hasn't asked me out on a 3rd date though he said he would like to see me again. I'm not sure how this works but should I be asking him out for a 3rd date? Or should I ask him out? It's been a week since our last date.
 
Maybe he's uncomfortable or shy asking another guy for a date, and just prefers you to handle that. Or maybe he gets an ego boost when you say (in essence) "I want to see you again". Or maybe it's a power ploy.

I know some people who would refuse to call him, figuring "I've done enough - let HIM show that he cares about this relationship now". But I for one don't care about such ploys. If I enjoy him, and I enjoy the dates, I don't mind making the calls to set them up. I'd say that's totally up to you.

Lex
 
^I concur. Ask him out. Should some type of relationship develop the two of you will hone the logistics. Good luck.
 
Please don't overanalyse. If you want to see him, call him. Don't make the the mistake so man have made.
 
Alright so I called him before lunch time and left him a voicemail. He hasn't called or texted me back. He has been active since on facebook via his cell phone. Maybe I'm paranoid.....
 
Take a breath and just be cool. He'll call.
 
Relax. You've called him. You left him a message. Ball's in his court now. Get back to your life. :)

Lex
 
I agree with Lex. Don't call, text, email or facebook him at all. Let him look for you! If he's interested --he'll put some forth effort. If not--life goes on and you'll find someone or vice versa! ;)
 
So. meh. If he doesn't call, whatever.

You took the initiative and that counts.

Don't think of it as rejection or personal failure. He may just not be feeling it.

There's still a few million other guys out there to take out for a test drive.
 
The most aggravating game is the cat and mouse game that guys play with dating. People seem to think it's fun or intriguing or adds to the mystery.

It's really just silly and sophomoric.

You did the right thing in not playing the game. You called and asked him out.

If this guy doesn't call back and continues playing the game, consider it a sign: he's an immature game-player and you're better off seeing someone who doesn't play games.

If he does call, then go out with him. Have an honest conversation with him at the end of the date and say that you'd like to see him again but you don't want to do the "Who's going to call whom? thing". Just put it out there that if there's going to be another date, then he needs to ask you out the next time.
 
G- Lexington. I like all ur comments. U seem like a very smart guy, a lot experience. I think I need ur help.
 
^ Then lay it on me. Lemme know what the dealy-o is. But in another thread. :)

Lex
 
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