A girl needing advice on 3somes

[sexxxivee]

Hi everyone, I've been lurking for a little while but this is my first post

I'm a girl and I really want to explore mmf threesomes but haven't really had much luck making it happen. I have a bf (who knows and is okay with it) but he's pretty straight so it's not like I can bring him to a gay bar and have him wing for me and snag a bi guy. lol. If i did have an mmf threesome, it would definitely not include my bf, as I would want two bi guys or one gay/one bi - the boy on boy action is a huuuuuge part of my fantasy

It seems from the posts on here that a lot of people have had luck in making it happen. I would love some tips, because when i first realized how much I wanted this I thought it would be pretty simple to find...I mean, I'm a very attractive, outgoing girl but somehow the situation just hasn't even come close to presenting itself

So, share your experiences!

 

[bronxroundbooty]

The Internet is one option.

 

[bronxroundbooty]

Gay bars is another. Bi parties. Bi social gatherings.

 

[sexxxivee]

Gay bars is another. Bi parties. Bi social gatherings.

Hey bronxroundbooty, thanks for the input!
I've actually tried CL haha, posted an ad (in the m4m section, which was kind of funny - i was surprised it didn't get flagged, but figured I had the best chance of finding a bi guy there) but as I expected, I got a TON of weirdos responding, and also a few guys who just weren't my type. I'll admit, I'm pretty picky...I am super turned on by a certain look, and I know that's part of why I am not getting lucky haha. I looove pretty boys, like hot, lean, slim european looking blond guys with chiseled, pretty faces, not too masculine or rugged (I know, pretty specific, right?)

As for gay bars, I have literally no gay friends in the city, and I'm kind of timid about the idea of showing up at one alone, and as I mentioned before, don't want to go with just my bf, because as many times as I've tried to tempt him with it, he's def not into guys.

Ideas?!

 

[bronxroundbooty]

Hey bronxroundbooty, thanks for the input!
I've actually tried CL haha, posted an ad (in the m4m section, which was kind of funny - i was surprised it didn't get flagged, but figured I had the best chance of finding a bi guy there) but as I expected, I got a TON of weirdos responding, and also a few guys who just weren't my type. I'll admit, I'm pretty picky...I am super turned on by a certain look, and I know that's part of why I am not getting lucky haha. I looove pretty boys, like hot, lean, slim european looking blond guys with chiseled, pretty faces, not too masculine or rugged (I know, pretty specific, right?)

As for gay bars, I have literally no gay friends in the city, and I'm kind of timid about the idea of showing up at one alone, and as I mentioned before, don't want to go with just my bf, because as many times as I've tried to tempt him with it, he's def not into guys.

Ideas?!

Craigslist has a bi section on their site as well though. But umm... I'd look up some bi events and gatherings on the 'net. I see you are from NYC like me, so finding one should be a piece of cake for you. adam4adam might be another one, even though that specifically caters to gay men, but you never know. Try going to events that are open to all gays, like lesbians, gay, trans, bis, and wear you most sexy black little dress you could find in your closet. You are bond to find somebody who is down in NYC for a bi threesome.

 

[Curiosity69]

Don't use craigslist or anything, you'll end up getting into a....situation that you don't want.

Go out to some gay bars, there's most likely some bicurious guys there looking to experiment and having a girl in there will help them with their experimentation!

 

[sexxxivee]

Don't use craigslist or anything, you'll end up getting into a....situation that you don't want.

Go out to some gay bars, there's most likely some bicurious guys there looking to experiment and having a girl in there will help them with their experimentation!

I really do want to go to a gay bar but I feel timid going without a gay guy...it's prob not that cool for a girl to show up at a gay bar alone, no?

 

[Beanstalk]

My hottest fantasy has always been a mfm relationship. A big part of the arousal comes from the idea of how much pleasure a girl can get with two or three hot guys all at once. And it is absolutely essential that the guys love each other and express it, too! I have no interest in straight guys just serially fucking one girl -- it doesn't have any of the juice that really bi guys can give. Also, I am not just interested in the sex aspect -- I am even more aroused by love than by sex.

I also love slim, young, very pretty boys, and I would just love to share a hot girl with a few very sweet young boys ("boy", of course, means legal age, but just on the young side).

On the other hand, I have found it nearly impossible to find a girl who wanted more than one guy! I also thought it would be easy to find -- what could be better for a girl than to have two or more guys instead of just one? Everyone knows that a girl is usually just beginning to get aroused by the time most guys are done! If there are two or even three boys, they can play as a tag team and keep it going for hours while the girl just gets more and more aroused.

For me, sex with a girl doesn't begin to get fun until the girl becomes HUGELY turned on! Once a girl is insanely aroused and hot and just cumming with juice (her own or that of the previous boys), that is when I love it best. Frankly, I don't have enough energy to get a girl to that state by myself!

I think some clever people should set up a web site just catering to threesomes -- not only MFM, which is my own favorite (I also love MMM - especially with one older man and two younger guys), but all kinds of threesomes! I can't imagine why such a site doesn't exist yet. I guess there are sites where 3somes can be found, but I want one that is exclusively devoted to the joys of 3somes (and more-somes). Also, it has to be free -- oh, there can be premium memberships and stuff, but the basic site should be free -- not only for me, but the boys I want to meet won't be found on a pay-only site!

 

[Curiosity69]

I really do want to go to a gay bar but I feel timid going without a gay guy...it's prob not that cool for a girl to show up at a gay bar alone, no?

Doesn't really matter, once you're in just sit at the bar and start talking to some guys, or get out on the dance floor and grind it up a bit. From what I've seen most gay guys like spending time and having fun with girls since they don't see them as sexual objects, but have similar interests. Just start talking to some gay guys and comment on other guys. No doubt after a while you can mention you want to be with two guys, provided there's alcohol involved I don't think they'll care.