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A Girl Wants My Big Gay Cock!

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Im a person of few friends and I get my way through school by making acquaintances and following people around like a creepy weirdo. Anyway about 2 or 3 months ago, while followed people around, I met a girl who seemed nice. She was one of them girls who has some weight and wears a moderate amount of makeup but her personality is really nice because of it.

Anyway, we started talking and we made partial friends but I have no social skills so i've never considered her a friend because I have little conception of the word but whatever. She was nice and funny and she made a few jokes about me being gay and says she's going to set me up with other gay people, but she only says this because im a bit flamboyant and feminine so I think she just guessed and also i've never told her or anyone.

So we got to know each other but never met up outside of school or anything, and when it got to the end of term (semester) she said "See you in 6 weeks then, bye" (that's how long summer is in the UK). I was like hoping she would give me her number or something remotely letting me know that we were friends but when she said that I thought what a total bitch.

After I missed the first 2 weeks of the holidays while I was abroad it was about 4 days after I got back that she texts me "is this your number" and from then it became a talking marathon. We texted each other until about 3 in the morning and starting at midday or evening and we just talked about stuff that you talk about. Then she told me to get a facebook account because I deleted it about a year before. So then we talked for a further 5-6 days all day and all night. I got really close to her but I didn't feel comfortable enough after a short space of time. (even though we talked in the same volume most people speak in a year.)

Yesterday I was out with a 'friend' who is really just someone I dont really like but I use him for social activities so I can get out of the house. He asked her as a joke, "Do you like tom [My name] bahaha lolwutz rofl" something annoying like that and she ignored him. Later that day he took a mugshot of me and sent it to her or posted it on facebook or something and she personally messaged him saying its cute. So now im assuming that she likes me but she also thinks im gay. I want to be her friend or like best friends because she's really nice but I think she likes me more than that and I can handle rejection its just I can't reject other people because I feel really harsh.

So what am I meant to do? Like really I want answers not opinions. What is my next step?

Edit: I like her as a good friend and I want to trust her but I don't know if telling her to back off bitch will make her a happy chappy
 
Your self-description has me thinking you are like Simon from Misfits.

First, and most important question, how do you feel about her? What thoughts do you have of her? (and please don't say you want to use her skin to make lampshades...)
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Welcome. In my opinion I think you are ahead of yourself. Set your boundaries and keep a friend.
 
I want to keep her as a friend but I want to tell her im not interested without offending her.
 
you mentioned that you never said that you were gay to her, first thing I would do is make it clear to her that you are. You dont have to be mean or rude about it just make sure she knows that.
 
I want to keep her as a friend but I want to tell her im not interested without offending her.

It is still possible for you to love someone yet not be interested in an intimate / sexual way. My fag hags all know this yet we share a love like I love my sisters. My point is you don't have to reject her at all, just be very clear about your boundaries.
 
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Nice to see that I'm not the only one. ._.


Yeah, I think you're thinking too far ahead. if she does come on to you, you should make it clear that you're not attracted to her.

You could either to that by just subtle things. Such as if she hugs you intimately.(wiggle uncomfortably)

Tell her you're gay, without telling her that you don't like her. (Introduce a real/fake bf or fling)

If she admits feelings for you, just turn her down politely and just treat her as you normally would to show that you don't feel any less/different of her.

Hope I helped.
 
I remember a really awkward moment I had with a former hag. We were spooning (yeah we were that close) watching ironically "He's Just Not That into You" and she told me "if only you were straight, we would probably be getting married". It got really awkward after that and the 'relationship' fizzled out pretty quickly. I definitely loved her but obviously was not 'in love' with her. Reckon I think she could make change teams or something but I knew that was an impossibility.

If you don't throw all the cards on the table now and instead hold them in your hand and continue to play games with her, it will just lead to a disaster down the road. If she can't accept you for who you are, time to move on.
 
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