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A Kiss Goodbye

HarryPotterHimself

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Okay, so I posted a thread a while ago about a friend of mine who I thought was gay. It was a long explanation, and if you remember, there were a lot of signs pointing to "GAY!" Well, this past Friday, he came to my house with a group of friends. My best friend was here as well, and recently, he's been saying he's bi, or he's going to become bi, flirting with guys and whatnot. I dont know if he's serious or he's trying to get attention, but that's not the point of this. He used to hate my friend who I think is gay, but they get along great now. Well, they were at my house, and my friend who thinks he's bi... we'll call him "Bi"... kept saying he was going to French the guy I think is gay...we'll call him "Closet", like me!... So Bi kept saying he was going to tongue-kiss Closet, and it kept pissing me off, because these are two guys I have a huge crush on. Bi even said it a few times to the group that he was going to do that. When they were getting ready to leave, Bi grabbed Closet and just kissed him. I saw a bit of tongue, but that was it. I wanted to rip him limb-from-limb at that point. So when I went to say goodbye, I said "Hey Bi, watch this..." and had my arms around Closet's neck. I leaned up and kissed Closet, and he's the one that slipped tongue. I looked at him and said "Wasn't expecting there to be tongue." He was like "Oh, I was going for tongue." So I leaned up and kissed him again, him leaning down to meet my lips, totally making out with me. Well, I'm in the closet, so I cant exactly confront either of them head on, but what do you think? I dont care about Bi, but do you think Closet is really gay? I mean, kissing on the lips as a joke is one thing, but he kissed me, and it was a real kiss, on my end, there were fireworks. I just want your opinion on Closet.
 
Umm, I think the door's been opened a bit. I don't think you're all in the closet anymore.

Let him know that you liked the kiss... and you'd like to kiss him again.

Or something.
 
Yes, I think "Closet" is gay, and I don't think you're in the closet anymore. Just a hunch.

I've never known a straight guy kiss another guy, for more than a second, never on the mouth, and usually makes a big drama-ass deal over how "gross" it was (just to make sure everyone knows he didn't enjoy it). Seeing as you lasted longer than a second, it was on the mouth, and you didn't marvel at how gross it was, I think your cover is blown. At the very least, folks are wondering. They will yuck-yuck it up with you during the scene, but seriously--I guarantee they left with eye-brows raised.

Anyway, nothing will happen with "Bi" or "closet" unless you want it to, and to do that will require you coming out (rather--confirming yourself) with him. You seem to want that, and feel pangs of jealousy when others get it on.

Have you considered just dropping the pretexts and just come out and go after and fight for that which you want? Don't let closet get away. Who knows what could develop.

Good luck!
 
I agree with looseliam; any of you thinking you're in the closet is just delusional. You all know about the others. I don't know if bi is bi or gay. But closet is definitely gay (I mean, he wouldn't tongue otherwise) and he knows that you're gay.

So I'd say if you like closet, ask him if he wants to grab dinner some time.
 
There's no way that anyone that was there thinks any of you is straight. There was tongue. A straight might kiss another guy on the lips as a peck but he would never let the kiss be even in the slightest sense prolonged; much less slip his tongue in another man's mouth.

Congrats! You just came out of the closet
 
looseliam said:
It's a witch?
Click to expand...
Wizard, actually.

mymariah@1 said:
Get Nekked and Have what I call a menage a trios
Click to expand...
God, dont I wish? Well, if Bi decides he really is bi, gay, other, whatever... his bone's getting jumped whether he wants it or not. I've had a crush on him ever since we first spoke... it's hard having a crush on your best friends.
 
Okay, new update, and yeah, I know this is a double post. This weekend, me and "Bi" were taking pictures. We decided to kiss for one of them, and then later, after we were done with pictures, we did it again. Later that night, he was walking into my living room and we had the mattress on the floor, which I was laying on. He fake tripped right on top of me, and I leaned up and grabbed his face, making out with him. And then last night, I went to "Closet's" dorm, and he was acting weird all night. When a friend of ours found out we'd made out, she paid us five bucks a piece to do it again, so we did, but the rest of the night, he'd act "gay" (jokingly, so-to-speak, he does it with all his guy friends) with all the other guys, but not with me. Think I scared him into something, and do you think "Bi" really might be bi?
 
He may be a bit frightened. GIve him some space and see how things develop.
 
Whatever you guys are it sounds like you are having fun so I wouldn't worry about the labels and just go for it, enjoy life. God knows all the straight guys your age do.
 
Ok, what are you asking?

Straight guys don't make out with eachother. Both are gay or bi.

I don't think your friend would fake being bi to get attention. I would be reluctant to believe anyone would come out as bi or gay if weren't.

Oh, and as far as "closet" goes...I feel like I relate most to him. I'm bi, but only out to a couple people, if a hot guy came up to me and was insistant on making out, I'd do it....but probably feel awkward about it the next day if it wasn't something I had planned on doing, or with someone I knew in a different context before.

But, if I were "closet" I'd probably be a little awkward, but it's probably something he's feeling and not anything you did...it would make things more awkward if you don't talk to him, not necessarily about the kiss, but just don't let the awkwardness set in too much.
 
I'm not one of the "screw the labels" types, but I think it's appropriate in this situation.

Just go with it. Give him a little time to think about it, and then talk about it. If it feels good, it is good.
 
that story was so hot. it could of got hotter if someone ripped their clothes off and their was a hot ass orgy!!!
 
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