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A little rant...others might agree!

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Heya,
Just really a little rant about dating sites and how fucking rude some people are!
Its like they think their Gods gift and say contact me if you feel like talking when all they want is to hook up or they don't answer you! And you get them in person as well! Just annoys me soooo much!
Is it because they think that their too good for anyone?
Or is it just because I say hi and am gay they think I want whats in their pants!
Ya not universally irresistable mates!

Sorry, because this is just a little rant and I've got no one else to say how I feel to, and I apologise to those who do reply because they are the ones worth talking to and getting to know, the nice genuine, down to earth kind of guys!

Thanks for listening!

What you think?
 
About what? There are net sites then there are net sites. I gather that the hookup sites are about fucking, if a guy tries to make it something else, I'm not surprised if there's a low success rate. I've never tried a dating site, but there are guys in here who can probably point you to one.
 
Ahhh no see thats the point this is people who are supposedly looking for Mr Right or so they say! On serious dating websites no hook up sites I don't bother on their any more! Unless your a really open person (which I'm not atm) you get soemwhere!
 
Maybe you'd be better off staying away from the dating sites honestly..

It's ok if you don't want to share too personal information, but people are going to want to know what you're like.

Dating sites are all about selling your image. It is competitive but thats the tradeoff for having the convenience of an online dating site.

And I hate to say this but you will have to meet a lot of Mr. Wrongs before you find that one good guy.
But.. You'll learn alot about yourself through those connections.
Don't expect too much at first, and find people that interest you mentally first, and physically second.

Thats usually a good way to find someone that is BF material.

PS. I met my current BF online and I couldn't be happier. :)
Hope you find what you're looking for.
 
Yup,

usually full of self obsessed weirdo's, met too many off the internet than I care to tell, but for some I'm lucky I still have my kidneys :|

I stay on one or two sites just for the chatroom since there is a few nice people that are good for a talk and laugh.
 
I've also been having a play with some of these lately.

I've been talking to a handful of guys but with no real success. I met one guy who looked pretty good in his profile, (His profile pic didn't show his face, just his body but it looked goood, he was young, trim and sexy and closeted like me) It all seemed great, we are both similar ages and we started chatting, long story short we exchanged cell numbers and started smsing back and forth, we chatted a bit but never got to know eachother too well..... out of the blue he cut me off and stopped talking to me, no replies back.

This kind of hurt me, and I couldn't let it go, too many questions and I didn't know WHY.

I'm pretty crafty and if it's something I want, I'll find a way to get it, I had his cell number, but that was about it, no name, no email, nothing.

A quick Google search of his number led me to a webpage (Which is his) for computer repairs, in turn this webpage had an email address, from there I used his email to search Facebook and there you go, I had his full name, city and lots of photos of him. I had a quick look around at his photos and profile and then it dawned on me, he wasn't what I was after anyway, after seeing some natural photos I realised I wasn't actually attracted to him at all, it's funny when the pin drops and you realise.

After that point I wasn't really frustrated with him, moreso the situation that I put myself in and I only had myself to blame to take the dating site so seriously. It's just another learning curve for me and I know I won't be foolish enough to be so naive, take it slow.

Hope this helps, if not, disregard it :)

- M
 
Thanks guys for replying, I spose I was just having a little angry moment and needed to vent a few things as I dont have anyone else to say it to! (Closeted) And like Vidarr I'll have to go through lots of Mr Wrongs but I'm now living the phrase if I want something I'll go get it!

Cheers once again!
 
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