A question about a situation I'm in with my best friend...

[abc123youandme]

OK. So I have been friends with this guy for about 6 months and we hang out constantly. I confessed to him that I had feelings for him and he responded with "I don't know what you want me to say but I don't like guys". OK, I get that. But he is very cryptic with things that he does and I will get into detail here in a bit. Last night I fell asleep early and I think he wanted to hang out but we both had shit going on. Anyway, he sent me a message that I didn't get til the morning and it was him sitting there naked with his leg crossed blocking off his junk. At the bottom it said, and I quote: ";-) Thinking of u baby"...

What the hell does this mean? Is he into me but can't except that he may like guys? I need help!

He also gave me a random ass pamphlet about Mars that said 'No Turning Back'. There have been countless other things that have made me think I have a chance. But I'm really confused. Any ideas or tips to find out?

 

[abc123youandme]

So I just called him about the photo and he said it was a victory photo and the girl he just had sex with took it. Ha! I'm so confused!! Why would he send me a PHOTO of him naked?!

 

[MarkMySpoT]

i think he is just teasing u because he knows u like him. he is just being an ass. i would not think nething more of it than that.

 

[Seasoned]

It seems that he enjoys knowing he turns you on. Teasing like this is cruel. Tell him so.

 

[braex27]

OK. So I have been friends with this guy for about 6 months and we hang out constantly. I confessed to him that I had feelings for him and he responded with "I don't know what you want me to say but I don't like guys". OK, I get that. But he is very cryptic with things that he does and I will get into detail here in a bit. Last night I fell asleep early and I think he wanted to hang out but we both had shit going on. Anyway, he sent me a message that I didn't get til the morning and it was him sitting there naked with his leg crossed blocking off his junk. At the bottom it said, and I quote: ";-) Thinking of u baby"...

What the hell does this mean? Is he into me but can't except that he may like guys? I need help!

He also gave me a random ass pamphlet about Mars that said 'No Turning Back'. There have been countless other things that have made me think I have a chance. But I'm really confused. Any ideas or tips to find out?

That says everything he needs to say.

Anything else he does to encourage your further attention to inflate his ego is cruel, and not something a friend would do.

 

[star-warrior]

I am in agreement with the other guys. Stop it now, and move on...

 

[abc123youandme]

Nah guys. He isn't that way. He is a really sincere dude for the most part. He sent the photo to ALL of his best friends. I didn't find out until later on. I think he just forgets about my sexuality and attraction and treats me like a best bro. I am going on a 2.5 week road trip with the guy...just he and I. So we will see what happens! I am fine with just being friends. If we fool around then cool. I am down for whatever. I just want to keep him as a friend. Thanks for the advice fellas.

 

[jd0711]

Straight guys like attention, doesn't matter who it's from.

 

[mike_n_herrin]

i think he is just teasing u because he knows u like him. he is just being an ass. i would not think nething more of it than that.

i agree. str8 guys will tease. they get a thrill from it. you can look at it as them being assholes or you can look at it as them just getting a kick out of it. but it doesn't mean anything for you. sorry.

 

[catee222]

Heh, I'm in a similar situation with my friend (minus the sending naked pics part, he's very introverted). Since I told him I had feelings for him, he likes to tease me sometimes by saying he's got a "hot date with a girl" (and winks) when he has other plans as I ask him to hang out.