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about a guy with a boyfriend

G-Lexington

G-Lexington

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Awhile back, you rejected him.

You wouldn't call him back. You drifted away from him because he weirded you out by saying he loved you. You stopped doing things with him. You let him know, via your actions, that you weren't interested.

He obviously picked up on that.
He moved on.
He got himself a new boyfriend. One who apparently he either didn't say "love" to, or wasn't weirded out by it.
And you now come back and say, "Hey, I'm interested again." And he wisely told you he would rather stick with the guy he's got.

At least, that's what it sounds like to me.

Lex
 
^^^Yup. Me too. Sounds to me like you nailed it, Lex.
 
Lex nailed it.

Maybe this guy felt love for you that very night. With my past boyfriends, and now current husband sometimes it took me 2 years to feel/say "I love you". Other times, I've felt/said it on the 2nd date. (Literally)

Sometimes.....you just know. Are you sure that your aren't just interested in the chase? He was interested in you, therefore you weren't interested in him. Now that he's unattainable, he's a challenge, and therefore you are interested in him. Happens all the time, dude. *shrug*

You snooze, you lose.
 
So, he has a boyfriend now, you said you were interested, he said now he just wants to be friends...but THEN he came over and tried to fuck you? Then yes, he wants to fuck you with no strings attached. And it's up to you whether that's something you care to deal with.

And did he just use you before to get laid? No idea. Just assume "yes", and find somebody else. It's clear there's no future there.

Lex
 
I would stay away from guys with boyfriends. I got mixed up in one of those and I am paying for it now. Generally, if he would mess around with you while having a boyfriend he will do the same thing to you if you date him.
 
Your timelines are a little confusing. If he tried to have sex with you while being with his boyfriend, he doesn't sound like boyfriend material anyway.
 
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