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blahman16

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how come man-man sex seems so much easier to access than man-female sex? i mean, when i was younger and dated girls there was always some sort of "protocol" where you have to go to several bases before sex, whereas it seems like for gay sex it is as easy as looking up some ads on a website. why is access to gay sex so much easier, or more casual?
 
A bunch of reasons. I think the main thread that runs through them is "stereotyping".

What's the word for a woman who loves having sex? "Slut".
What's the word for a man who loves having sex? Well, "man".

Men are allowed to simply love having sex. Women who do are looked down upon by much of society. They're considered "loose" and to be avoided. I've never been sure exactly how that was supposed to work, unless either ALL the guys were banging just a few women, or else (yes!) the guys are all banging each other. :)

Also, speaking on a purely average basis, I think women are somewhat more interested in emotional needs and less on physical. So to some women, the sex is a pleasant side effect of being in a relationship, whereas I know some gay guys where a relationship is the pleasant side effect of having sex. :D There's probably simply fewer women who have the "emotional disconnect" when it comes to hooking up for a one-night stand.

Lex
 
I think it all depends upon the people involved, their personalities, self-esteem, sense of adventure, attitudes, etc. Fear enters into this as well.
 
mydrew1 said:
For who? I can't get a date, much beyond that a fuck atm. I even tried to bribe a gay semi-friend of mine I met online $40.00 for a kissing session and he's refused.
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Aww Drew, don't feel bad. I'd fuck you. ;)
 
It's because guys are generally more physically driven in their sexual attractions than girls. In straight relationships, it's the guy who usually places a higher value on sex and the woman generally desires the emotional connection more.

When it's two guys (who as guys are still the same as straight guys in being more physically motivated imo), the desire for sex is matched more equally and so it happens easier.
 
mydrew1 said:
For who? I can't get a date, much beyond that a fuck atm. I even tried to bribe a gay semi-friend of mine I met online $40.00 for a kissing session and he's refused.
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That's why you can't get a date in my opinion. I'd feel like a whore taking money from someone for something like that.

Be yourself, make friends at places/events of things that interest you, and appear YOUR best (you don't have to look like a model or porn star, just put some effort into your appearance to bring out your natural handsomeness {which every man has}) and you'll be fine.

hotatlboi said:
It's because guys are generally more physically driven in their sexual attractions than girls. In straight relationships, it's the guy who usually places a higher value on sex and the woman generally desires the emotional connection more.

When it's two guys (who as guys are still the same as straight guys in being more physically motivated imo), the desire for sex is matched more equally and so it happens easier.
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And on topic, this appears to be true. Guys instinctually want to have as much sex as possible while women are drawn more to "best matches". That doesn't mean that the opposite doesn't happen, and it doesn't mean that women don't have the same sex DRIVE as men.
 
I don't think it's easier by any means. OK, yes, we gay men have sex more, but there's way less of us, so our pool is smaller.
 
youngnihilist said:
I don't think it's easier by any means. OK, yes, we gay men have sex more, but there's way less of us, so our pool is smaller.
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yeaah our pool is smaller but everybody in the pool is having sex. In 4 year i had have sex with a bunch of guys, and when i just 1 woman
 
youngnihilist said:
I don't think it's easier by any means. OK, yes, we gay men have sex more, but there's way less of us, so our pool is smaller.
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I really feel the opposite. It's so easy to just go on craigslist and just find a quick hook up, as opposed to doing the same for man-female. there isn't any sort of process required to have sex with a guy, no bases to get to first. of course, there are girls like that out there but it's interesting that it isn't as prevalent as male-male sex
 
Woman who enjoy sex get all the guys she want !!!
Good for her.
 
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