Accidental friendships ?

[Lewis1]

Ok i know that sounds kind of weird but im so going through it right now . there is this guy that i met in 2005 and we seem to connect preety good. Well for some reason or another we lost contact and fast foreward 09 i seen him at my school and he just fiished up his first semester so i was like wow u go here now ect. and it just so happens that i sent him a messege on his myspace that i found lol so i was taken off guard by seing him but yeah, so he took my number and said he would call and i said keep in touch. Now i did have a slight crush on him& i got over it but when i seen him again all those feelings came back but nehoo he called me 3 weeks later and left a messege and i called him back & no response untill i called him again and he answered he seemed normal and we talked for 3 minutes& he said he will call me back that night & never did and i called him a week later and left another messege and nothing so 2 weeks later i saw him at the bus station & hegave me a hug and we caught up and we got on the buss together and my bus ride was short so we did not get a chance to talk much more so i said good seing ya and c ya later but when i get off the bus he calls me to talk more for About a minute longer then he says he will call me qhen hegwts home and again no call back.

so far all of our contact has been accidental
From seing each other to talking on the phone and i want to be mad at him for it but hes so cool & friendly lol but what should i do?
I definetly do not want to make an issue out of it cause it kinda sounds petty when you say it out loud but i thought we were gonna pick up where we left but it surre isnt happening that way. Help

 

[slickery]

Apparenlty it's not happening that way.

You want to be friends with him, you've made attemtps. He has taken little effort to reciprocate.

Ask him specifically if he wants to get a coffee or a beer or something. If he shows no interest or doesn't get back to you, brush it off. It's not worth your time.

 

[Lewis1]

Apparenlty it's not happening that way.

You want to be friends with him, you've made attemtps. He has taken little effort to reciprocate.

Ask him specifically if he wants to get a coffee or a beer or something. If he shows no interest or doesn't get back to you, brush it off. It's not worth your time.

Geesh well despite his shortcomings he is really cool. I have written him off kind of but i still want to be there if he needs me.

 

[rareboy]

From seing each other to talking on the phone and i want to be mad at him for it but hes so cool & friendly lol but what should i do?

Obviously, he regards you as a passing, casual acquaintance.

Get over it and on with your life.

BTW. Were you texting this message? A little more attention to punctuation, sentence structure and spelling
would be recommended. If you have time to insert 'lols', you have time to write a proper sentence.

I have to say that if you were texting me and I received a message like you posted above, I probably wouldn't be all that interested in spending time getting to know you better. You may not realize it, but it makes you seem immature and slap-dash. Your friend might have had the same impression.

 

[kissthesky88]

aren't all friendships accidental...? the better ones are at least. i'm thinking you're seeing this as a potential crush/friend who's playing gnarly coy and it's starting to piss you off.
and of course you always want them more that way, 'cause you always see and talk to them in all these random accidental ways; as if they're fate or something. so the dicks use them to their advantage and play games with you.
good luck

 

[Lewis1]

Obviously, he regards you as a passing, casual acquaintance.

Get over it and on with your life.

BTW. Were you texting this message? A little more attention to punctuation, sentence structure and spelling
would be recommended. If you have time to insert 'lols', you have time to write a proper sentence.

I have to say that if you were texting me and I received a message like you posted above, I probably wouldn't be all that interested in spending time getting to know you better. You may not realize it, but it makes you seem immature and slap-dash. Your friend might have had the same impression.

I typed it from my ipod touch and correcting takes alot more effort there isnt a nackspace on this thing but since its such a biggie for you i will re edit evEry thing when i get to a comp again

 

[Lewis1]

aren't all friendships accidental...? the better ones are at least. i'm thinking you're seeing this as a potential crush/friend who's playing gnarly coy and it's starting to piss you off.
and of course you always want them more that way, 'cause you always see and talk to them in all these random accidental ways; as if they're fate or something. so the dicks use them to their advantage and play games with you.
good luck

I dont know if its quite like that he doesnt know about the crush i dont think and it really doesnt seem like hes doing it on purpose i dont know

 

[spencer]

if you message someone several times and they don't respond back, they're not forgetting entirely on accident. meeting an old acquaintance does not new a friendship make, it just makes for uncanny coincedences.

wait a bit, message him again with specific plans or an open invitation and if there is no answer, consider it dead in the water.

 

[Lewis1]

if you message someone several times and they don't respond back, they're not forgetting entirely on accident. meeting an old acquaintance does not new a friendship make, it just makes for uncanny coincedences.

wait a bit, message him again with specific plans or an open invitation and if there is no answer, consider it dead in the water.

I like u

 

[slickery]

Whatever minga that's the same thing I said. How come you like him and not me?

 

[spencer]

Whatever minga that's the same thing I said. How come you like him and not me?

cause i'm eloquent and succinct
the one OP on that cynical thread liked me on that one too

but don't worry cause I like you