advice about a friend/situation

[robs]

I posted this in Hot Topics too, but thought I should post here maybe.

Okay last year I went to a bachelor party with some guys my brother in law is friends with. I knew them from high school, but never really associated with them. Well after the first bar, and riding we had to pee. Well they were telling stories earlier about how they got laid in high school and they kinda picked on Mike since he has a small dick he never got laid much. They assumed I was still a virgin and wasn't about to tell them anything anyway. Anyway, well we all get out of the van and are peeing on the side, and I notice Mike's eyes are drifting my way as I'm peeing next to him a few feet away. I guess he was trying to see what I got, since I didn't chime in on who has the biggest dick. I have to admit, he's very hot and my height which is short for a guy. I was trying to get a peek at his to even though I know he's small, but I am too. Skip to last night. I'm in the bathroom, at a wedding for one of the guys we all hung out with the night of the bachelor party, and there is a piss trouff and one toilet. So, I'm in there peeing or trying to and he walks in and stands a few feet away. I'm now pee shy since I find him so attractive and don't want him to see my short dick, and see in the corner he's trying or using prepheral vision to check me out. Well I just zipped back up trying not to make it obvious I'm pee shy and go over to wash my hands and I stood where my back was against him, and noticed he thought I was going to see his, which I did really want to. I didn't look though and dried my hands and walked out. As he came out he passed my table and gave me a weird look. I don't know if he thought I was trying to look at his or he knows I kinda caught him trying to see mine or he knew I became pee shy and didn't know why. He left shortly after that, so I didn't even get to talk to him. He claims he's straight and hangs out with very straight people. Should I send him a message on MySpace about it or a general oh I saw you in the bathroom, but don't like the peeing and talking to another guy thing and how he left early so I didn't get a chance to see whats up or should I just let it go? Any help??? He's really hot, and honestly I'd suck him if he asked me to. I think he's just curious about what I got though. But yeah please help!! Sorry it's a long post

 

[G-Lexington]

I'd say you're building a fairly large "what if" out of nothing more than looks. That doesn't mean it could be precisely as you lay it out, but I'd say it's awfully early to tell. Feel free to add him as a friend on myspace, or maybe shoot him a "hello" message, but I'd leave it to him to make the next move after that.

Lex

 

[racer2438]

Well said >>>Lex

 

[Fiorino]

Lex is right on.

 

[Eagle653]

I don't see anything wrong with making contact, saying something like it was great seeing him at the wedding. But, I'd not mention anything about the john at all. It would just demonstrate that it has weighed on your mind, which would strike him as weird, regardless (it's really not weird, but would strike him that way, probably).

Good luck. Let us know what you decide to do.

 

[socalistud3]

i am inclined to agree with Lex

 

[robs]

Oops! Forgot to let you know know happened. As expected, I wrote him saying hey and that he left before I got a chance to talk to him and see how he's doing... and no reply. So, he's either avoiding me, or could care less or all of the above. I'd show his picture, but I don't think I better.