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Alex Rose

Alex Rose

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Hi guys, I was really foolish and met a guy at his place. I had the condom right near me and once we talked I had oral sex with him. He gave to me only and thats all we did.
I'm going to get tested to be safe. I'm not sure if I would meet him again but I feel if I would I want to be cautious and use condoms especially for anal sex. When we first chatted online I said you ok with condoms and he said yes.
How do make that clear, cause I'm sure now he will expect at least oral to be raw? I made this mistake my first time with a guy.
 
It sounds like he blew you? Getting tested is a good idea but, to be clear, the testing will need to include testing for gonorrhea, chlamydia and syphilis. These are far more common in oral sex transmission compared to HIV, especially among men who have sex with men.

If you haven't been vaccinated for HPV, hepatitis, meningitis and MPox, it would also be a good time, while you're at the clinic, to discuss these preventative measures.

As for your future partners, you are always going to be responsible for your own health. Make it clear that you only have safe sex and that you want to use condoms. If someone does not agree to your requirements, say, "No, thanks." and block them.
 
KaraBulut said:
It sounds like he blew you? Getting tested is a good idea but, to be clear, the testing will need to include testing for gonorrhea, chlamydia and syphilis. These are far more common in oral sex transmission compared to HIV, especially among men who have sex with men.

If you haven't been vaccinated for HPV, hepatitis, meningitis and MPox, it would also be a good time, while you're at the clinic, to discuss these preventative measures.

As for your future partners, you are always going to be responsible for your own health. Make it clear that you only have safe sex and that you want to use condoms. If someone does not agree to your requirements, say, "No, thanks." and block them.
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Yes he did. Thats great advice thanks!!! I also think I should look into that doxy pep, I notice guys have that on their profile.
 
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