Advice needed my first time with a BBC!

[Firsttimebbc]

So, I'm talking with a friendly top, who is well endowed and he knows about my fantasy, that's being fucked by a big dick...

Maybe not the correct and smartest way to start with fucking, but there the change is and I wanna grab it.

So I was wondering how does is feel the first time? Hurts? When comes the pleasure etc, any advice for this inexperienced bottom ..

Thank you!

 

[frankifab]

How old are you ? Have you tried playing with your fingers or dildos ? If so , do you get a boner while fingering / self-boning your butthole ?

Every guy is different , some bottoms get erections while being penetrated , whilst others don't . In my personal experience the bottoming experience is more thrilling and pleasurable when you get a boner and start pre-cumming while being boned ( but that's my case )

I guess from what you've posted you may not have tried a Dildo

It hurts the first times , specially if the top is hung

First of all , you must make sure you're clean inside , wash your hole to avoid unpleasant surprises . I think it is very important to be physically attracted to the top to stand the initial pain , if he is a passionate top , in my view , he should first rim you and get you very aroused , then you would need to have plenty of lube to initiate the penetration , if you feel the beginning of the penetration is too painful you could make him lay down and you could slowly and progressively sit on top of him until getting used to his dick , then you could switch positions and he could switch to a faster pace of thrusting .

Is he an experienced top ? if he is an experienced top who knows how to please another guy without causing him pain , he should know what to do

Even when one has bottoming experience and you get involved with a tough careless guy , he can make the experience painful if he is tactless , rough and selfish only focusing on his own pleasure while inflicting pain on the bottom ( if he is that kind of top , it's better to cancel the mission )

Get to know him well , so you have a pleasurable and memorable experience

 

[TX-Beau]

Let me just tell you about my first-time bottoming experience, the guy who topped me was huge, like fat, 9 1/2 huge. He didn't know what he was doing, and neither did I. It was fucking excruciating, and it turns out that I don't like to bottom anyway.

Yes, it's going to hurt, but if you're a bottom, they tell me it's also a pleasure. I've never felt the pleasure, so you'll just have to take their word for it. If at any point you start feeling like it's awkward and uncomfortable, generally unpleasant and just not all that - before you decide you must be straight after all, perhaps roll him over and try the other side.