Advice on how to bottom?

[dowjones]

I've tried to bottom before but was only successful once. Seems I'm really tight or something. Tried practicing with a Dildo but that hurts too. Help! Anyone got any advice on relaxing, or any tips to share?

 

[vettehottie]

try laying on your side and make sure you partner goes in really slow. That seems to relax a bit.

 

[Audio Tech]

I've tried to bottom before but was only successful once. Seems I'm really tight or something. Tried practicing with a dildo, but that hurts too. Help! Anyone got any advice on relaxing, or any tips to share?

The word is PRACTICE. It'll stop hurting after a while. Like everything else, you get used to it, and then it starts feeling good.

 

[justright25]

Push out as your partner pushes in and relax have him hold it steady in you for a short while meanwhile you get somewhat used to him inside of you and then he can begin doing you

 

[PhunkSpunk]

it helps to be really, really horny!

I think this tread belongs in one of the advise sections, actually.

 

[sweetcheeks50]

I've tried to bottom before but was only successful once. Seems I'm really tight or something. Tried practicing with a dildo, but that hurts too. Help! Anyone got any advice on relaxing, or any tips to share?

hi babe !! im new to being gay ? can u tell me what bottoming is ? if its you sitting on another mans cock then u should try a wicked lot of lube or start with a smaller penis and work your way up !! thats what i would do !! especially since it would be my first time bottoming ! havent had a cock inside me since i was 18! cant wait !!! hugs and kisses !! ttyl

 

[quasar]

I've moved your thread to Health & Wellbeing as you'll find lots of advice in this forum. In particular, check out the 'sticky' All About Ass at the top of the forum.

 

[Rgncajun]

Try buttplugs to loosen it up.

 

[sweetcheeks50]

The word is PRACTICE. It'll stop hurting after a while. Like everything else, you get used to it, and then it starts feeling good.

i cant wait for that part !! i guess its like a womens pussy !our partners will stretch us out !!

 

[gingentleman]

Try having your partner play with your ass for a while, using fingers and lots of lube, before trying to insert his cock in you. Just go slowly and enjoy!

 

[allmygayporn]

1. Relax
2. Lots of Foreplay (smaller dildos are always good)
3. Experiment with lubes... there is a difference and quality matters.
4. Start with cowboy/cowgirl position as you are in control and can take it slow as you need.
5. Nothing is fun without a little bit of pain... what pain you feel will go away and you will love it, but still follow steps 1-4 so you don't over do it at first and injure yourself.

 

[palemale]

1. Relax
2. Lots of Foreplay (smaller dildos are always good)
3. Experiment with lubes... there is a difference and quality matters.
4. Start with cowboy/cowgirl position as you are in control and can take it slow as you need.
5. Nothing is fun without a little bit of pain... what pain you feel will go away and you will love it, but still follow steps 1-4 so you don't over do it at first and injure yourself.

I guess it all depends on the guy. Just relax, relax, relax. My first time was with a guy with a 9" cock. I never tried a Dildo or butt plug. He just rimmed me a good long time, lubed me and fingered me, then entered. Great. It hurt a little, but was great. I wasn't sore afterward. Oh, be sure to breath. When it hurts, the tendency is to suck air into your lungs and hold your breath. Don't, be sure to breath.

 

[pat grimshaw]

…Seems I'm really tight or something.…

That may be your Sub-conscious telling you that you don't really want to do it.
Don't do it.

 

[tommy_tommy969]

You would think that since there's so many instructional sex vids for straight people out there, that us gays would get one as well!