Advice Regarding First Time

[princejh18]

This is actually my first post, so I guess it's fitting that I want to talk about my first time. A little background: I am 20, a sophomore in college, and still in the closet. I am also chubby, and feel self-conscious about my looks. I am not ready to come out yet, but I also want some experience with another guy.

Well, a few days ago I posted an ad on Craigslist and was answered by another student. He is a senior living in the dorm next to mine, and he wants head. He claims he doesn't care what I look like (he sent me a body/dick pic of him and he is hot!!) but I can't help but feel nervous regarding my looks and potential performance as I've never sucked a guy off before. If anyone has any advice about any aspect of this situation I would really appreciate it.

 

[puka-pride]

errr as long as he knows about ur hang ups and u really wanna do it then go for it... but meet in public... and go back to your room not his...


and be careful...

craigslist is sketchy...

if ur not comfortable enough with doing that then ur probably not ready for the drama that comes with fooling around with people and you shouldn't do it

 

[princejh18]

I know that Craigslist is sketchy...which is why I only responded to his reply, as he is another student and I think that most students at my school are at least sem-normal. Maybe this is a foolish assumption, but we chatted online a few times (the only personal info we exchanged are the names of our dorms, as we both want to be discreet) and he seems like a pretty stand up guy.

Since I have a roommate and he has a single, he would be hosting, which kind of adds to my nervous factor. The one thing that bothers me is that he says he really doesn't care what I look like-he hasn't even requested any kind of picture from me. Are there guys out there who really just don't care?

 

[Screwdriver4]

It means that you're just his booty call so he can get off.

Unless you get a jolly out of being used and thrown out, don't go

 

[KaraBulut]

It means that you're just his booty call so he can get off.

Unless you get a jolly out of being used and thrown out, don't go

Harsh but true. This booty call is not going to be a self-esteem builder.

 

[puka-pride]

well it either means its a booty call and he dun care what u look like cus he just wants to get off

or

he doesn't care what u look like because its some kinda trap...

it just sounds sketchy to me

have u at least seen him on webcam?

 

[Eagle653]

Hey princejh18, welcome to posting. Glad you're here.

I'm going to buck the trend a bit here because I don't see much wrong with what you're planning to do. You've chatted with the guy, and you are convinced that he's sane and really a student in the next-door dorm.

I think he's made it clear, though, that you are a means to an end (getting him off). He may not be interested in reciprocating, so you need to know how you feel about that. If you're fine with that, then again, you're both on the same page.

What's in it for you is experience and the chance to suck a nice cock. Again, if that's what you're in it for, then you'll be fine and I hope all goes well. Don't get attached to it, though, or (God forbid) start falling in love with him. Be realistic about what this is and isn't, and use him just as he's using you. Who knows? It might be a great quid pro quo for both of you.

Good luck! Let us know what happens!