Advice wanted

[hottmale4male]

Ok...So heres my story in a nutshell. For the past like three years, I have considered myself bisexual. I usually want to hook up with girls, but get hard when thinking about sex with guys, so I usually just watched gay porn. Over the past month, however, I got myself to only watch straight porn. I found myself having wet dreams about guys though. My dilemma is this: I'm nervous I won't be able to get hard when I have sex with a girl. Any advice or experience??? Thanks.

 

[Telstra]

your name is hott male for male.
And that would be my advice.

 

[Horschallen]

your name is hott male for male.
And that would be my advice.

My sentiments, exactly.

 

[sk8parkdude]

I know what your talkin about man. Give it a try with a chick, if you cant stay hard just picture a dude in your head. It works when Iam with a girl. Find a really hot chick so your most likely to stay hard.

 

[kramer362]

I know what your talkin about man. Give it a try with a chick, if you cant stay hard just picture a dude in your head. It works when Iam with a girl. Find a really hot chick so your most likely to stay hard.

or accept the fact that you're gay and don't try having sex with girls

 

[kingkhan]

I consider myself bi as well and have been getting more horny about fantasies about guys( don't watch guy on guy porn though) so I kind of know what your going through. If you are with a women you find attractive your body should just respond but, if it doesn't you may just be more then gay then what you previously thought no shame in that.

 

[mj2006a]

One thing I learned in life...the more I looked at guys, the more I desired them...Sex with guys is just hot and "animalistic", it is wild, hot and everything else. I feel totally free and comfortable with a guy. Yet, I consider myself bisexual since I love sex with women as well. While, the sexual experiences with guys are more directly SEX while these experiences with a woman involves way more emotion, carefulness, attention to her needs, future involvement, etc. While all these things are elements of gay sex as well, they are just stronger when a women is involved. Trust me, once you take a shower and SHE, your girl, takes a shower and things get going your cock will get hard. Yet, what can really affect the strength of the hard on is your emotions. If you feel guilty, crappy for cheating on your girl, you'd better drop the case and focus on her alone. If you do not, just drop her for consideration sake until you figure out what you want out of life. Once you get married...there are a whole package of issues that you have to deal with and trust me, based on my experience, it is a tough call. Just decide what you want out of life in a healthy and elaborated way.

 

[Axehands]

Here's the deal: If you honestly just look at a woman you like and you just don't feel that pull, that desire to pull them close, you don't smell them and go crazy, and you cannot imagine living the rest of your life with any woman... Then you're gay. If you feel the same way about both men and women then you're bi.

 

[red1979]

It's all about why are you trying to have sex with a girl. If you want to have sex with a girl because you just want sex, it sounds like you'd have issues. If you want to have sex because it is THE girl, then your emotions take over and everything should be okay.
The thing you did with your porn watching is similar to Pavlov's dog. You're trying to condition yourself to be attracted to guy-on-girl sex and that obviously didn't work. It sounds like you're physically attracted to men but not emotionally and you're emotionally attracted to women but you're afraid you're not physically. So I have one question for you: how do you feel about boobs?