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Hi all. I'd describe myself as bi-curious.

A few months ago I was at a club (straight) and I started talking to this guy on the dance floor. He seemed a bit tipsy but was really friendly. Anyways, he wanted to dance with me so we danced and a bit later he introduced himself to me, he then proceeded to ask for my Facebook. :-) He kept grabbing onto me and holding me. We talked a bit but nothing much and I ended up leaving the clubs and told him that I'd be out at another club. I never ended up going out after so I just went home.

So now months on we've been friends on Facebook and we've only spoken once about the night briefly... I'm interested in this guy, how should I approach him about it? I'm not sure how to strike up conversation :?

Is this worth pursuing or should I just leave it as is?
 
Invite him out for coffee or happy hour. Say something like, "Let's meet up for [coffee or happy hour]. When would be a good time for you?" Get to know him better in person.

Or invite him out to a club again.
 
I think becoming friends first is a solid first step. So many people do the opposite, starting with sex and hoping they connect on a deeper level afterward.

But anyway.

I echo what HunterM wrote. You guys had a fun time the first night, and there seemed to be a connection. Now you've become more acquainted through Facebook so you at least know something of what he's like. Seems like a natural next step to meet socially so you can gauge what vibe is there.

Keep us updated.
 
Do you think that might be a bit creepy though? What if he isn't actually bi/gay and was only under the influence of alcohol :?

I don't know.. I feel like straight up asking him out for a "coffee" or drink may seem a bit forward? Maybe that's just me. !oops!
 
What's so creepy about inviting someone out for coffee? :confused: I do that all the time meeting up with friends, straights and gays.
 
Thanks for the advice guys! What do you reckon would be the best way to approach it though? Private message? Comment on one of his statuses/activities? Or just plain wall post it?
 
I would never post it on his wall!! Private message is the way I would ask him. Keep us posted please!
 
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