Afraid It'll Slip

[hotatlboi]

In my experience, something you REALLY don't want to share that is that private will not come out even when you are drunk.

I was closeted for my entire college years and got shitfaced plenty of times in the company of others (to the point where I couldn't even remember what I said or did) and I never had a problem with that.

 

[Seasoned]

In my experience, something you REALLY don't want to share that is that private will not come out even when you are drunk.

I was closeted for my entire college years and got shitfaced plenty of times in the company of others (to the point where I couldn't even remember what I said or did) and I never had a problem with that.

At least to your knowledge.

At some point in order to have an inner peaceful life you'll most likely will want to get honest with yourself.

PS You are normal.

 

[hotatlboi]

At some point in order to have an inner peaceful life you'll most likely will want to get honest with yourself.

I was honest with myself, just not with others.

But it is much easier being out and not having to worry about that.

 

[boiseboy]

Ha, same here. I didn't really have gay thoughts until I was 14 and I scrolled over an erotic gay picture on a forum. I kind of liked it and started searching for more pictures like it.


Now I'm pretty comfortable. I still like girls, but I still enjoy sex with guys too.

 

[Lucas07]

I'm about to finish university and like hotatlboi I've been wasted a lot of times during my years in college.

I've said and done lots of things that drunk people do but I've never ever blurted out this secret of mine. It's strange really when I think about it.

 

[G-Lexington]

Honestly, I don't think you have anything to worry about. You've probably never seen any of your friends drunk babbling about what kind of porn THEY like. The only problem will be if you actually want to date a guy. But you can cross that bridge when you come to it.

Lex

 

[nautiboyjeff]

THEY have to remember too....that's the problem, typically they aren't sober when you are drunk. So even if you slip up a little or something, no one can remember because you are all in the same state of mind.

People don't hear so well when they are drunk!

 

[TX-Beau]

Then of course there's the obvious, if you're that afraid of saying something when you're drunk, don't get that drunk.

[Sigmund Freud]Maybe you're so worried about slipping because you're really tired of hiding.[/Sigmund Freud]

Aren't there other people with whom you can explore this at your university?

 

[youngnihilist]

Its not so much what you'll say when drunk - it's what you'll do!

 

[hotatlboi]

Its not so much what you'll say when drunk - it's what you'll do!

Here again though, I didn't have a problem. When you are closeted you don't really make sexual advances to other guys in public, and for whatever reason your mind (or my mind at least) respected that even when I was drunk.