After Anal Sex

[hammertank]

so i'm still a virgin and my boyfriend and are going to be heading to anal-ville pretty soon. i've done everything else but not anal. i've heard stories of people crapping all over the place the minute the "top" pulls out. and i dont know how to feel about that. i dont want that to be me. what triggers it? and how is a few good ways to avoid such a thing.

 

[sentirpromesas]

that has never happened to me, ever, while topping or bottoming...i wouldnt be too worried...just go to the bathroom before sex, and clean the area with a moist towelette and your good to go...dont believe anything about douches or enemas...they do more harm than good...

 

[sixthson]

Any butt play has the potential to stimulate the bowels to move and if you plan to bareback and let him cum in you, that could trigger activity. Being nervous and fearful doesn't help much, either. My guess, however, is that you would have signs long before the climax.
Every guy is different. Use condoms and pay attention to what your body is telling you all along the way.

 

[TomahawkEagle]

Take a big dump first so there's plenty of room for the cock to fit. The cock would get shitty and I haven't worked out a way to avoid that. Yes I'm still a virgin but I've had other things up my ass like a garden hose and ice shaped like a condom.

 

[Raincoat Massacre]

Take a big dump first so there's plenty of room for the cock to fit. The cock would get shitty and I haven't worked out a way to avoid that. Yes I'm still a virgin but I've had other things up my ass like a garden hose and ice shaped like a condom.

...umm wow

 

[TomahawkEagle]

...umm wow

Care to try? But just in case you do, make sure you use lube just as you would with the real thing. If you're going for the ice adventure, melt the all sharp tips first before sticking it in.

 

[kinkyhost]

enemas are total bowel, sml and large intestines elimination.. douches are more suitable.. for me i douche all the time... it is erotic.. no matter what anyone says they are healthy in moderation.. i do epsom salt douches so i dont loose to much salt, enemas however can eliminate essential minerals and cause heart flutters, quite scary. i do salt water enemas once or twice a month (2 Litres) for erotic purposes and i douche before i go on webcam as i like to know im clean as i do a lot of no limit anal cams toying gape etc.

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[3stripes]

for me i douche all the time... it is erotic.. no matter what anyone says they are healthy in moderation...

of course they are, thats why doctors advise against them. What would a doctor know about health?

 

[ThePrince85]

Take a big dump first so there's plenty of room for the cock to fit. The cock would get shitty and I haven't worked out a way to avoid that. Yes I'm still a virgin but I've had other things up my ass like a garden hose and ice shaped like a condom.

Sorry, I almost fell out of my chair when I read that.

 

[jockboy01]

enemas are total bowel, sml and large intestines elimination.

Totally not true. That is one hell of a an enema to clean out the small bowel haha. Enemas do NOT clean out the small bowel and depending on volume clean out part of the large bowel.

no matter what anyone says they are healthy in moderation.

With all due respect, you're wrong here. Clearly you do not understand the effects here based on previous comment. So please don't lend poor information when you don't know the correct information. Thanks.

 

[jockboy01]

^^ and with all due respect, I disagree. Just because his douching doesn't produce immediate effects doesn't mean it doesn't do harm. And to say people know their own bodies perfectly is complete nonsense. I've encountered tons of diabetics who say "nothing's wrong with me, I feel fine". A few months later, they're back at the hospital with a dead foot scheduled for an amputation.

He can share that if he wants.

Absolutely. But this a health forum. And if the information is incorrect, believe me, it won't and shouldn't go unchallenged. What good is a health forum that give wrong information? Then it just becomes worthless sharing instead of a resource.

 

[thewiz]

I don't think I would worry about crapping all over your boyfriend. I suppose if you had been pounded every which way you might have some potential but if he is gentle and you truly have a love session, I've never experience a problem as a top or bottom.

I did have one bad experience with a guy who wanted me to keep pounding in his ass...he kept yelling at me to do it harder; harder; dammit, I said harder. Now, i'm not small and, quite honestly, pounding a guys ass for all I'm (and he) is worth is not a turn on. But he then got on top of me and slammed his ass on my dick until it hurt (the next day I felt like I'd been in a fight!). He actually crapped on my dick as he was pounding down. When he shot on my chest and I in the condom, he rolled off, looked and said, "oh, sorry." ICK! Let's just say that was a one night stand!

But don't be surprised if you pull it out or your boyfriend pulls it out and there is a small amount of feces on the penis (or condom). Just keep a towel handy and slide the condom off into a towel and there's nothing really left for evidence!

 

[kinkyhost]

omg, if u are so worried practice, control your muscles, douche, use your brain... dont do a shit!! doh!!

 

[KaraBulut]

Since this thread is now over 9 months old, I'm sure that OP has long since overcome his fear of pooping after anal sex.

And since he never updated the thread to let us know- perhaps he and his boyfriend have been too busy fucking like bunnies.

 

[Eternaldarkness]

Whether or not he had found out the solution, I would like to point out that
your anus is a muscle that YOU CONTROL the action. Why would you crap all over the place? Unless you intentionally push the crap out and poop all over the place. Honestly, even if you get fuck by a horse, the moment he pulls out, your muscles returns back to its original position before the loosening, its a natural reaction, that doesn't mean it'll malfunction and cannot hold stuff in. Like all voluntary muscles, we control it.

I just get curious on why would anyone even think about this topic. If the anus is that easily ruined, we wouldn't have to force feces out of it. Fecal matters would go through the small intestines, onto the large intestines and gravity would slide the shit out whenever we stand up.