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i know this is an old topic.it's something u should never do!

i met a guy on the internet!he's nice,young reguarding the fact that he is a professor,very sexual!

we even agreed on the date to fuck!and then he brought up the quest,barebacking,otherwise nothing would be happening!i never met anyone who is so obsessed by barebacking!of course i said no way.i m maybe horny,but not desperate!

can any of u guys explain me why the should be so hot,what is this fetish all about?
 
I don't think it has anything to do with being a "fetish". A lot of guys out there just refuse to use a condom because they say it isn't the same feeling and they want the real thing. I don't think it has anything to do with their being turned on by the risk either. Given all the information available that proves this is risky behavior, they choose to ignore it. Fact is, they don't care. They want what they want. Fine for them but my answer is always NO. And NO=NO. If they won't do it any other way then it doesn't happen. I'm not playing russian roulette with my life just to satisfy a trick.
 
i have noticed in the last several years that barebacking has become very popular with the younger gay community. i have to admit i do enjoy it better without a condom. either being the top or the bttm it feels way better. but(to my defense) i am in a commited relationship.and we are both clean as a whistle.
 
people alway explain this issue that way:they dont care!
but in my case,he is 35,already professor,and his major is even bio!more ironic,something to do with the virus!
if someone didnt care,it shouldn't be the one like him.he has the future lot of people can just dream of!
i study ecomomics,i always think about the risk and the yield.i assume prof should be smarter than me!
 
never, never assume that some guy is thinking about you when you're hooking up for sex... what he's thinking of is getting his rocks off and finding someone to do it with. On his end he is likely thinking that if you agree to bareback you are aware of the risks and assuming you are positive. He may be a REALLY nice guy in real life, but he is likely letting you worry about yourself... that's the way it is sometimes.

As far as the attractiveness of Bareback.... for me (in a committed, monogamous relationship with both partners tested) it's about spilling my sperm into my partner, or vice versa and having a small, intimate part of him in me after the fact. It's about the communion between 2 men, by exchanging something produced by their body.... Semen is the most inimate secretion your body makes and offering it to someone else is an intimate act, accepting it is symbolic of a shared bond.
 
[As far as the attractiveness of Bareback.... for me (in a committed, monogamous relationship with both partners tested) it's about spilling my sperm into my partner, or vice versa and having a small, intimate part of him in me after the fact. It's about the communion between 2 men, by exchanging something produced by their body.... Semen is the most inimate secretion your body makes and offering it to someone else is an intimate act, accepting it is symbolic of a shared bond/QUOTE]

I love the way you said that. I have been seeing a guy for the past 6 years. He is desperate for me to bareback him. I have hesitated because of the fact I am not sure how monogamous he is. I'd love to do it because I am very attached to him.
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I love the way you said that. I have been seeing a guy for the past 6 years. He is desperate for me to bareback him. I have hesitated because of the fact I am not sure how monogamous he is. I'd love to do it because I am very attached to him.
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I know how you feel, and I hope at some point you get to experience the act... but because of the inherent risks, if this is something you want to do for him, I think the two of you need a BIG talk and clear up any uncertainties.... This kind of thing, for me, comes from a place of total trust. You need to find your way there, in my opinion, before opening that door
 
I'm surprised, shocked really, at how many guys I meet that are willing to bottom bareback... oh, the first encounter, it's only with a condom, but the second or third, they "trust" me... yeah, kiddo, but if you're so quick to trust me then I don't trust you.
 
thanx u guys,sometimes i know the truth,just need somenone to back me up.i m feeling a lot better!
this whole thing has a long story i just realized involving me,the prof and my ex who is by the way still one of my sex partners!
after we broke up,my ex met the prof.they have done the stuff.my ex told me they did it 3 time in one night and other kinky things!they wanted to find someone to try 3some which i 'v alway curious about!somehow we didnt come to the point of 3some but me and my ex still keeping having sex regularly,with condom!then the prof hit me up on the internet and the whole story i told u with me and the prof!just right now,i asked the ex,who is by the way now in toronto canada for his exchange program,what the hell was going on that night,he confessed about the bb which he denied all the time!i m so pissed off for being hidden from the truth that put me at risk!
who u can trust?i think the answer is just u.when it comes to no,just say no and firmly!
 
You can't trust anyone with your life, certainly not when them getting off is involved.

Stay away from him; you will feel better about yourself, and you might live to see 40.

And your ex has lied to you...is this the first time?
 
oh,josh,u got me !
but he said he loved me!:-) so i think it was not the first time he lied to me
 
You are an economic major - the risk of being bottom in bareback (as I assume u would be with prof) is infinitely higher than top. Contemplate that.
 
Call it the way you like it. Some people are not into safe sex. Period. For a variety of reasons: to some exchanging body fluids may be a fetish; the others do not feel comfortable with a condom; yet some might find the game of Russian roulette somewhat irresistible.

Just like with a few other things in life, not everything can be fully rationally explained, no matter how hard you try. This is where the phrase 'an Article of Faith' comes in.

I like being flexible and I like pleasing my partner and I am willing to listen and consider many things. And there are things that are simply not open for discussion. There are things that are written in stone and will not change. I hate to draw the line, but this is one of the situations where I draw the line. Period.

So, adopt a life saving attitude: No Condom Means No Sex. End of Discussion.

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