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Age Different Relationships

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I live in SE Asia and here age different relationships in the str8 and gay world is common. It is different than in the western world. I am 67 and I have a fellow who has been pursuing me for a few months and he is almost 28. That makes almost 40 years difference. He is attracted to older men and most of his friends are older men. What is the common thinking.....too much of a difference? he likes to buy me small things and so I am not so inclined to think that he is after a sugar daddy. Thanks much!
 
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I live in SE Asia and here age different relationships in the str8 and gay world is common. It is different than in the western world. I am 67 and I have a fellow who has been pursuing me for a few months and he is almost 28. That makes almost 40 years difference. He is attracted to older men and most of his friends are older men. What is the common thinking.....too much of a difference? he likes to buy me small things and so I am not so inclined to think that he is after a sugar daddy. Thanks much!
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Asian culture has always decreed that the younger generation revere the older generation. Quite right, too

And, as Joan Collins says about her much younger husband, "If he dies, he dies"
 
I don't know that the gifts are not evidence that he isn't after a sugar daddy, but that's really something that shows up every day you are together. If he regards and admires older men, or even just older people, it will come up over and over in his daily interactions. He will react differently to old people around him than a user would react.

And, it should be said, he could truly admire older men and still want a sugar daddy. Not wanting to work for a living is not wanting to work for a living, regardless of orientation or attractions.

One assumes you discuss your dreams and wants and whatnot. Materialism will show up soon if that is a problem.

All that said, I had a younger friend 20 years my junior in Alaska, and he sought me out. He and I were really, REALLY different people, but he is indeed attracted to older men. He married a man older than I, and he supports that man, not the reverse. He and I are friends until yet, and keep in tocuh long distance.

I hope your friend is truly yours, and wish you every happiness. Gay men have so much more stacked against us, even a little romance late in life is a jewel to be cherished.
 
Not uncommon, at least where I live. My husband is 24 years older than I am, and we´ve been together for about 11-12 years. We expected some raised eyebrows, we didn´t expect it from other gay couples though. We had a couple also with a notable age difference telling us it won´t work, which was surreal tbh.

Anyway, as long as it´s legal, if you´re happy and comfortable, go for it. Life´s too short to care about what other people think.
 
I used to work with a guy he's 40 and date a 23 year old. They seem happy she got him out of his awkward shell. I seen tons of cute guys in their 20s i just can't do it but each their own.
 
I only do hookups. I stopped for a little over a year after covid hit but now that I am back on the market I have rebranded myself as a "daddy' and have discovered a whole new pool of thirty-something men taking an interest in me.
 
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I only do hookups. I stopped for a little over a year after covid hit but now that I am back on the market I have rebranded myself as a "daddy' and have discovered a whole new pool of thirty-something men taking an interest in me.
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I'm 39

Will you be my Daddy? :)
 
You like who you like. It's really none of anyone else's business as long as all involved are consenting, of legal age and mentally competent to make such a decision.
 
Go for it.

I have to say that one of the best fuck nights I ever had was with a guy in his 50's when I was 22.

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