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Akward silence... you know you want eachother.. what next?

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I have this friend... he's pretty cute (gay), and I really like being close to him. He's really quiet, as am I, and I never really know what he's thinking. Earlier this week we were hanging out, talking, and it got quiet. I really wanted to kiss him, but I didn't know how he'd react. Finally I said screw it, and went for it. He kissed back, and we made out for a WHILE... it was really hot. The next day we were at a party, and were both drunk... long story short by the end of the night we ended up messing around, and I think he liked it a lot! We were laying on the couch, about to pass out, when he just started making out fiercely, to NO objecton on my part lol, and we ripped eachothers clothes off within a few seconds.

Yesterday we hung out, and sat at opposite ends of the couch. Same akward silence as the first night. I kind of brought up the night before and gave him hints, but nothing happened. We were watching a movie, and I asked him if he liked to cuddle in attempt to get close to him, and to see how he'd respond, and he just said "no not really, I like being held when I sleep, tho". He is NOT prude in the least bit, I know that, but definately isn't making the first move. I think the first night his inhibitions were greatly lowerd since he was so drunk, and thats the only reason he made the first move.

So, tonight, we're hopefully going to hang out. He said he had to do something with his friend and wouldn't be able to hang out til around midnight. As long as he calls back, which he should, tonight has the potential to be fun (!)

My question to you guys is, when you know you have a good chance at something happening, but you're with someone you KNOW won't make the first move... what do you do? What do you say?
 
example: One of the first guys I was with asked "What would you do if I grabbed your cock right now?" He was driving at the time, and I was like uhh I'd probably get a giant boner... and he went for it. lol.

I don't think I could ever be THAT daring...

edit: lol wankywindow
 
You ask awkwardly to place his hand on your crotch, a ghost gestures, the velvet car door is open, you take a 60ft line of coke, then die.
 
We were sober when we made out, we were drunk when we had sex, but I know it wouldn't take that... all it woudl take is me making the first move, but I'm interested to see if any guys have any slick ways to make that first move other than "uhh hey, wanna fuck?" lol. Although, some would say direct is the best approach...
 
This sounds like a fantasy. But if it isn't then just do what you want, it ultimately doesn't matter. (I'm typing this from a forest)
 
Hi Biguy,
Partial quote:We were watching a movie, and I asked him if he liked to cuddle in attempt to get close to him, and to see how he'd respond, and he just said "no not really, I like being held when I sleep, tho". Looks like an invite for a sleepover to me..;)
Best of fortune,
Dio
 
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meeting at midnight is a rather odd time to "start a date or evening." you won't have any idea of what his day has been like nor his evening.

why not just try and help create as relaxed and tension free period with him and get a feel of what his mood happens to be.

it just may be that the time for sex is not quite right and pushing the issue at the wrong time, just may not be the right idea.

time, patience, listening, watching and being thoughtful and sensitive to his feelings and mood and your own also, just might be the way to go.

i guess what the local village idiot is trying to say is does there have to be sex for you to get closer to one another? but then again, what do i know?](*,)

eM.:(
 
Hahaha. This made me laugh because it brought back a funny memory. I was dating a guy and had not even gotten to first base with him. We were sitting on the sofa and I said to him, "What do I have to do to go from here (pointing to the sofa) to in there (pointing to his bedroom) with you?

He practically leaped on top of me.
 
It wasn't really an invite for a sleepover I don't think so I ended up leaving around 11:30.

Today he said he had to go out with his friend, might not be back til around midnight but we could chill then, I just txt'd him and he said yeah probably but he's tired, my response was that we should have a sleepover. He txt'd back that he'd txt me and let me know.. so... we'll see.
 
Ryuukie said:
Hahaha. This made me laugh because it brought back a funny memory. I was dating a guy and had not even gotten to first base with him. We were sitting on the sofa and I said to him, "What do I have to do to go from here (pointing to the sofa) to in there (pointing to his bedroom) with you?

He practically leaped on top of me.
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LOL I like this one!!!
 
Why don't people talk?

Did you say 'Hey! I really enjoy being close to you. Let's do that more!'
 
On opposite ends of the couch....

I'd get up to get drinks or something, come back, hand him his, then stretch out with my head in his lap. It may not be cuddling, but it's nice... and you can feel if something 'comes up'.
 
lol, you need to relax a bit more and take thing playfully. You seem so tensed when you're with him. Infact, both is too tensed.

If he say "i'd like to be held when I sleep." Then you should cuddled up to him anyway and ask "so, are you sleepy yet?" in a playful way.

If he says "I'll visit you tonight at midnight" then you should joke around and say "then can we have sex too?" or "oohh, doing naught things at midnight." and laugh about it.

You know, use these jokes and playfully offer him something and give him a hint you want it. Obviously you wan't it bad, so just let him know that way.

Lets say you and him have an awkward silence and you both know you want each other.. you can break the silence by saying this. "There's something serious I need to tell you."

His ears will perk up with interest. This always gets their interest.

"You're fucking hot and I want you baaad." or "can we get drunk and have sex again! Please! pretty please!" hehehe, lol.

You know what I mean. Your the quiet type. He's the quiet type. If you both are going to be quiet and wait for a response, why don't you playfully give him an offer he can't refuse. Don't sit there and wait for the room to get hot to take your clothes off!

hehehe.
 
wanky_window said:
You ask awkwardly to place his hand on your crotch, a ghost gestures, the velvet car door is open, you take a 60ft line of coke, then die.
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Er... okay.

I guess that's romantic, in a Dali kinda of way.

-d-
 
Awkward silences call for something to break the tension.

Like cutting a really big, loud, raucous fart. #-o

Hmm, maybe that's why I never get anywhere with guys.... :help:

:D
 
^ Dunno why that made me laff so hard but it did. Again with the farting...
where's Circe Infuria when we need her? lol......
 
be subtle in your approach, be playful but creative. Alternatiely you could get a movie that would give you an excuse to cuddle with him
 
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