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Alpha male? Alpha top?

Pyramus11

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I kind of think of the term like... A top who fucks other tops, if that makes sense. He likes the power of being on top, likes to be agressive, etc. That doesn't mean he's mean/cruel or part of BDSM, just has a lot of fun in what he does. Maybe I'm wrong, though.
 
One of my exes called himself an alpha top. I don't know how it is for most, but for him it meant he was an alpha male and a top that never bottoms. i perfer to bottom, but he also extended it a little to him being the man in the relationship and me being the woman and that bottoming was a real negative. I don't know if that is what an alpha male is to most, but the way he talked about it on our first date sounded like it was at least fairly prominent.
 
Alpha male = a territorial asshole who doesn’t respect his partner’s feelings.

Hi, B’Woof! ;) My Ben is better than a typical former high school athlete who hangs on to his glory. And he gets to drive a Ferrari! hehe

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lol well not that there is anything wrong wiht being a woman, but no i didnt
 
westwood blues said:
:D Uh uh! Don't even go there. ;) I can't believe you wrote this after I gave you those hot tips on giving head. I thought you were my bud. The nerve of some broads! You're just jealous because you don't have a cock. And if you had one, you couldn't make it dance and throw down like mine. ;)

Seriously though, I hope you don't actually believe this shit about alpha males. My bf and I respect each other so much that we literally worship one another. In fact, we like to think of ourselves as Greek gods. Also we keep each other so satisfied in the sack that we don't feel the need to go outside our relationship to get our rocks off. :p

Yeah, we might've been former star athletes in high school, but we're both well educated, young professionals now. Actually my bf played soccer in college. Like I wrote, we have an inherent drive to excel at whatever we do, and we never sit back and rest on our laurels. We want it all! :D BTW, since when does a broken down Hugo resemble a Ferrari? :D Besides, I heard that someone got a free and easy test drive of that "Ferrari" at Walmart. You wanna run that "girls are harder to bag" stuff by me again? :p Luv ya, Trish! :kiss:
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Hi, w, blues! ;) LOLOL We are buds. But like a typical guy, you say something nice and you follow with something stupid. Why do you guys insist on running your mouth?

Seriously, how do two alpha males work together? Aren’t you worried that you’ll get stabbed in the back? How do you sleep?

BTW, that Ferrari ride at Wal-Mart was not free! LOL

T
 
westwood blues said:
I define myself and my bf as alpha males because we're both extremely competitive and have the will to be "top dog" in whatever we do. We're also very athletic and have been jocks for most of our lives. Whatever we do, we love to compete and win. We even hate to lose to each other.
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I am exactly the same. I guess that makes me an alpha male as well.
 
I also find alpha males annoying and try to avoid them in sexual relationships, but I can be friends with them. If I'm playing a sport, I generally don't care about winning - I just like playing the game. I'm especially this way in tennis, and I feel bad if I win too much against someone who really wants to win. I'm very competitive in certain aspects, but nothing too serious. When I wrestle, I try to win, but I'm not disappointed if I lose. I'm more competitive when it comes to intellectual games.
 
RRRalph said:
I am exactly the same. I guess that makes me an alpha male as well.
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I guess me being an Alpha Female doesn't help? Damn! And here I thought you and me were compatible.
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Hi, w’blues! ;) LOLOL Actually, I forget which stupid comment had pissed me off, so many to choose from! It wasn't the “Hugo” comment, tho, I was just bein general.

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alpha top is someone secure enough in himself that he doesn't actually call himself that ;)
 
Alpha Male does what comes naturally to him and his strength originates in his sense of being genuinely himself. He is not mimicking anyone. He is his own man.

I know very powerful alpha males, who are gifted bottoms. Topping or bottoming does not affect his alpha status. It really all boils down to getting what and whom you want, because you can produce and give more than your competitors. You win and they lose.

Yup. All the guys are competitive and most of the dudes want to achieve something. So, they are sweating it all big time. Alpha males plan and execute with utmost determination and precision. Sweating it for posterity is never their thing. A dude has it. Or he doesn't have it. There is nothing in-between there.

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