I met this girl about 6 months ago at work. She seemed like a cool girl so I added her on Facebook and long story short she gave me her number and we kinda texted back and forth every so often. After all of my friends moved away after college I needed a new group of friends and I told her this and she invited me to a party with her group of friends, so I went and had a good time. I told her she was really cool and we should hang out more often and she said that i was cool too but she doesn't just dive in to relationships and we could just hang out more and see what happens.
She ended up being in a "friends with benefits" type situation with another guy who also happens to be a good friend of mine. one day she was having a conversation with her FWB about how she wanted to date him and he said if you want to date someone why don't you date John (that's me). and she said, "no. he's my best friend it would be weird"
when she told me this i was really bummed out and i couldn't keep it in anymore and i asked her if when she said that mean like we could NEVER EVER be a couple and she just said she thought about being in a relationship with me all the time but just said that because. and then i told her that her FWB was a dick for NOT wanting to be in a relationship with her and that any guy should be happy to call her his girl friend. then she proceeded to tell me about how all she was thinking about all night (we had watched a movie together) was how she wanted to cuddle with me and that saying all those things didn't help and whatever.
even longer story short she told her FWB that if he didn't make it official in 2 weeks she was gonna move on. he said "okay well since you complain about it enough do you want to be my girlfriend?" (real nice, right?)
then we were at a party together (the three of us) and she was annoyed with him and made him leave. she then proceeded to tell me about how now that she finally got what she wanted (dating him) there was a complication (me) and then she kissed me and we made out. we then decided to walk back to my house where she told her boyfriend we would be and he got super pissed. and the whole time he was on his way to come get her we made out.
the next day we talked about what had happened and she still said she really liked me a lot and she likes him too (but they have nothing in common) one time we came home from a party and made out in my bed for quite a while and then she started sucking on my finger and said she wanted to give me head. but i told her i would feel bad because I'm good friends with her bf. but then i finally caved in and said she could do whatever she want and she proceeded to give me the best head I've ever had. and she slept over that night and told her bf she stayed at her friends house.and now pretty much everyday all we do is text back and forth (I'm at 3100 texts) and every time we are together and her bf isn't with we cuddle/hold hands/make out...i am a horrible person and probably going to hell. sorry such a long story but i needed to get it out.
She ended up being in a "friends with benefits" type situation with another guy who also happens to be a good friend of mine. one day she was having a conversation with her FWB about how she wanted to date him and he said if you want to date someone why don't you date John (that's me). and she said, "no. he's my best friend it would be weird"
when she told me this i was really bummed out and i couldn't keep it in anymore and i asked her if when she said that mean like we could NEVER EVER be a couple and she just said she thought about being in a relationship with me all the time but just said that because. and then i told her that her FWB was a dick for NOT wanting to be in a relationship with her and that any guy should be happy to call her his girl friend. then she proceeded to tell me about how all she was thinking about all night (we had watched a movie together) was how she wanted to cuddle with me and that saying all those things didn't help and whatever.
even longer story short she told her FWB that if he didn't make it official in 2 weeks she was gonna move on. he said "okay well since you complain about it enough do you want to be my girlfriend?" (real nice, right?)
then we were at a party together (the three of us) and she was annoyed with him and made him leave. she then proceeded to tell me about how now that she finally got what she wanted (dating him) there was a complication (me) and then she kissed me and we made out. we then decided to walk back to my house where she told her boyfriend we would be and he got super pissed. and the whole time he was on his way to come get her we made out.
the next day we talked about what had happened and she still said she really liked me a lot and she likes him too (but they have nothing in common) one time we came home from a party and made out in my bed for quite a while and then she started sucking on my finger and said she wanted to give me head. but i told her i would feel bad because I'm good friends with her bf. but then i finally caved in and said she could do whatever she want and she proceeded to give me the best head I've ever had. and she slept over that night and told her bf she stayed at her friends house.and now pretty much everyday all we do is text back and forth (I'm at 3100 texts) and every time we are together and her bf isn't with we cuddle/hold hands/make out...i am a horrible person and probably going to hell. sorry such a long story but i needed to get it out.
