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im 19, in a straight relationship and have been for a while. since i started watching porn i have always had a look on gayporn sights but more and more recently. iv sucked my best mate of 3 or 4 times and enjoyed it. I'm so curious about getting fucked and have been close to meeting with men of the internet.

let me know how you knew u were gay thanks
 
Maybe you're bi, maybe you're gay...
I was in a straight relationship for 7 years, but now that I'm out, I identify as purely gay as I don't find myself attracted to females at all. I don't think it really matters which 'box' you want to put yourself into; what matters is that sexually you explore and do what makes you feel happy and fulfilled. If that turns out to be both guys and girls, great... If it's only guys? great also...

I don't think I realised that I was definitely gay until I was about 16. I was confused up until then and then in denial after then but that's a whole other story....
 
As you explore you will either want to continue seeing both women and men or not.
 
I think the fact that you already had oral sex with a guy and are thinking of doing anal then you must like having sex with guys lol. It doesn't matter what you call yourself, gay or bi, you like men and it's okay. I hope you're not going behind your girlfriend's back and doing this stuff though.
 
Hi mickyboy: being nineteen you are at the starting stages of self discovery believe it or not. Can I say you are 'gay' or 'straight' no I can't for it would not be fair to you for I don't know your entire story. However, what I do know is that you are very curious (taking a peak at gay sites, etc.). This curiosity is very natural and nothing to be afraid of. I would be happy to share my story with you but it is a long one. However, I will tell you some of the highlights.

The curiosity and confusion began in high school at about the age of 15. I knew that something different was going on because most of my friends would brag and talk about their dates and it really was not a turn on for me. I would sneak a peak at gay porn too and was very much interested in it almost like my friends who would take a peak at 'playboy' magazines. I kept a lot of this to myself. I tried to convince myself that it was just a phase that I could overcome with will-power and time. Well, it did not go away. When I went to college I attended the GSA on campus. I was able to meet others and share my stories with them and found that I was not alone.

Well, I am leaving a lot out in the middle, I would be happy to share more if you want to know more.

But from personal experience, the biggest thing is finding someone who you can trust and share how you feel with them. That will help you become more honest with yourself and with time better understand the feelings you have.

What I can tell you is that 'being' gay is more than sex (same holds true for 'being' straight). It has to do with a whole collection of feeling you may have for another person. The joy of being with that person, holding the person's hand, sharing stories and favorite foods, looking into the person's eyes and respecting him or her as an individual and accepting him or her as a person with all their talents and faults.

Lastly, trust me you can't do this by matching up with someone on the internet. I don't want to tell you what to do but many times this can lead to hurt feeling and more uncertainty. Along with many dangers too.

Hope this helps. Again if you want to discuss this in more detail let me know.
-careandrespect
 
You are not straight, that one is for sure. Now whether you're gay or bi is up in the air at this point. You are 19, which means you can rub it against tree bark and still get off, so the heterosexual relationship tells us nothing. Explore your interest with guys, and if you think you are more attracted to them than to girls, I'd say you're probably gay. Usually for gay guys who have "trained" themselves to play hetero, it takes years for the fake straight to go out of their system, but it does.

And if you're bi, even better. More variety...
 
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