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Am I Overanalyzing?

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Ok, so I started talking to this guy last year and we finally built up to actually hanging out once....took him out to lunch and everything, I thought we had a great time. There was definite attraction on my side but I couldn't get a read from him. After texting and getting minimal in the form of response I chalked it up to experience and moved on.
Fast forward to today and we've reconnected. We got together last night to watch tv and eat. I had zero intentions of doing anything but the minute I first saw him all those old feelings I had rushed back. The conversation was great and I thoroughly enjoyed myself. At the end of the night I spilled my guts and told him how I felt and he came clean that he thought I was an asshole when we met last year since he didn't know how to take my dry, sarcastic humor. So the air was cleared and I went in for the kiss....which I'm guessing he enjoyed since it led to more making out. He wanted to take it a little further with some oral but I stopped it. We had talked earlier about moving too fast with other people and I knew that I didn't want that to happen, which we all know can happen in the heat of the moment. So I ended things with a good night kiss and thanked him for a great night.
I texted him this morning to tell him that I had a great time and that I hoped we could hang out again. I've gotten some responses back and he told me he was busy with his work, which I can understand. But the responses remind me of last time.
I guess I'm still thinking about the last time. Am I overanalyzing? He's a great guy and I just don't want to annoy him.
 
I agree with lucky on this one. give it a little time.

and yes, might be overthinking it a little, I can understand given the history you have but people change. you have both said your piece and been honest, try not to connect whats happening now to what happened before.

good luck :)
 
He needs to make the next move......make him work, if he does not then you will now know that was time to move move.
 
Texting isn't good unless you're in an actual secure place with someone, all it does is makes you overanalyze things and feel awkward when you don't get a reply. Unless of course you know for a fact the guy is a good texter like me. ;]
 
hackingnomberr said:
Texting isn't good unless you're in an actual secure place with someone, all it does is makes you overanalyze things and feel awkward when you don't get a reply. Unless of course you know for a fact the guy is a good texter like me. ;]
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Good texters are hard to come by ;)
Just to update....looks like we are good. He was just super busy with work.
 
Next move is his. He might not be interested in going slow.
 
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