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Anal sex....I'm scared.

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So I'm bi-curious....very curious. I want to have sex with a guy. I think I may be gay, I'm not sure. I do want to suck a cock, and I do want to have anal sex, but I'm afraid.

I'm not afraid of the pain, but I'm afraid of other things. When I finger myself, I feel it go to my stomach, and then I have to use the bathroom, if you know what I mean.

So what I am asking is that is it just me? Is it a normal reaction? Before you guys have sex, do you use the bathroom and wash out your asshole? Apologizes if this sounds gross or absurd, but I just honestly do not know. Please, inform me!

P.S. If you are in the NY area, PM me if you wanna meet up :sex:
 
Chill out and find someone very hot, patient, and understanding. Easy, right?

Anal also takes some time to adjust to. There was a time when i was not in love with it, now its reeeeeedicliouly awesome. Kind of like my history with spicy food.
 
Practice with some toys can be a big help!!
 
yes, before you bottom you should have had a recent bowel movement and cleaned yourself well down there.

If you do that you should be good.
 
I've moved your thread over to H&W for more comments.

Also, in the top of this forum, there's a thread called "All About Ass" that has several old threads about preparing yourself for anal.
 
If you want to get fucked you need to start with a patient gentle Top with a small dick. Have him use plenty of water-based lube on his condommed dick. Lay on your stomach and spread your legs. The Top will mount you and should enter you slowly. It will be a pain in the ass the first few times you get fucked but the pain should be less and less each time. Get fucked once a week for about a month. The Top should be able to fuck you to completion and cum each time.
You will feel like you need to take a shit the first few times you get fucked but after a dozen times you will be able to take it and a dozen more times more you might enjoy meeting masculine Tops to fuck you.
It's best to get fucked after taking a shit so there will be less of the packed feeling.
 
Also, taking a warm bath seems to help. Always relax and have your first time be with someone trustworthy who will take it slow and not rush things. I find foreplay to be very helpful to prepare with taking it.
 
So you want to get ass fucked, but when you finger fuck yourself you feel you need to shit. This tells me that you need to train your ass to receive cock.

You need to finger fuck yourself more and more each week. Once you are able to take in three fingers without much discomfort, get yourself a medium-sized butt plug. Wear it around the house until you are able to wear it for a couple of hours without discomfort. This will take away the "need to shit" feeling while you are beign fucked.

Then you will want to get yourself a Dildo average man size and fuck yourself with it. This will help you understand what it is like to have a cock inside you.

I used this process to prepare myself for my first ass fucking. My first time was WONDERFUL! He ROCKED MY WORLD!

Also, you will need to clean out your ass before you get fucked. You will realize this when you start using the Dildo

I douche my ass and shower before I hook up with a guy. I started out using the Fleet enemas you can buy for under $2.00. Now, I use the hot water bottle type enema bag. It is really a matter of preference. If you have a high fiber diet, this step may not be necessary. You can judge for yourself by taking some practice runs using the Dildo

Just remember you don't need to clean the entire large intestine. Just about a foot near the asshole.

Good luck!
 
kguy3387 said:
Chill out and find someone very hot, patient, and understanding. Easy, right?

Anal also takes some time to adjust to. There was a time when i was not in love with it, now its reeeeeedicliouly awesome. Kind of like my history with spicy food.
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You've hit the nail on the head!


Anal sex is like eating hot peppers:

The first time is so uncomfortable and painful, you wonder "Why would anyone WANT to do this?!"; You try it again because you're curious if it'll be as bad the second time, and by the third time, you're hooked.
 
Anal sex is not about "learning to enjoy pain" or anything like that. It is, and as far as I'm concerned, it should be, about pure pleasure.

It also doesn't feel like taking a shit. It does feel similar at first though, and if you practice a few times, your body will learn the difference. It's like riding a bicycle. You don't know how you keep your balance, you just do after a while.

And after a while, your ass figures things out. The other threads in this subforum are filled with good info.
 
I cann't take anything up whatsoever. Besides most gays aren't into anal contrary to legends. Anal and penetration is typically str8.
 
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