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Hi guys,

I know this topic has come up a lot on this forum and I've read through past posts but I'm not sure I found the answer I'm looking for.

My boyfriend and I have anal sex and he is always on the bottom. We've tried switching but when I'm on the bottom he can't get it in. We use lots of lube, have tried different positions, started with fingers, all that and I just can't take him. He is fairly thick so maybe that's the problem. I just wonder if I'll ever be able to bottom for him. I've had smaller toys in my ass but I can't seem to work up to his size.

What can I do to work up to his size?
 
I'm glad to hear someone else has had that problem. I dated a guy for a while and he was primarily a top but always wanted to bottom.

No matter what we tried, I could not get it in.....and I am also considered "thick." Actually, several times I was sore as hell the next day from having tried to push it in and one time we tried like hell but he was just too tense.

We bought a butt plug (the ones that start small and work larger). I would use it on him to get him to relax and after that I was able to get it in although he still was quite tight but at least it didn't feel like I'd used my dick as a hammer the next day!

I'd agree with purchasing some different size dildos and working up; or a vibrator that starts small and gets larger as it gets deeper. You can even bring it into the sex and it is a great foreplay device.....
 
Hey guys... just wanted to say I followed your advice and last night... success! :)
 
btiger said:
Hey guys... just wanted to say I followed your advice and last night... success! :)
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Congratulations and thanks for the update!
 
m1thousand said:
try using various size dildoes but when you are by yourself.

A had a boyfriend break up with me because he couldnt penetrate me. I had had a bad first experience and it was a result of that. I practised with dildoes and I bought Jeff Stryker dildo (which I have used)
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Im sorry that your boyfriend broke up with you for that reason...that is a very shallow reason to break up with someone
 
yeah u goto slowly work upto a bigger size mate
 
I would highly recommend a class doc johnson with a tapered base. Definitely do it on your own and be patient. If you have the hunger for it, you will be able to eventually open up for him...
 
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