Anal sex questions ??

[ELAINE]

Is anal sex not sore once it's in? and will you're whole get too big if you keep doing it? because I've seen pictures of really big wholes. I'm a woman and I've never done it, but am kind of curious, but also can't handle pain.

 

[sargeantassman]

Is anal sex not sore once it's in? and will you're whole get too big if you keep doing it? because I've seen pictures of really big wholes. I'm a woman and I've never done it, but am kind of curious, but also can't handle pain.

Depending on the dick size it is sore at first, then its wonderful. Your hole does get looser but it all depends on the size of things goin in there... they make this stuff now thats like ambisol for your asshole..numbs it up real quick for a minute until things get goin. also, use lube. It will become one of your best friends... thick spit will work fine too, but lube is better.

 

[Telstra]

^ hey, i think to numb your ass is not a good idea.

pain tells you what you should do, if too much pain, u should stop.

i am still trying a dick in my ass but so far, only the tip of dick got through and NOT the whole dick .

maybe one day the whole dick gets in.

 

[Telstra]

basically it feels like pooing or shitting plus pain at the moment.

 

[LeoMikey]

Yes, it will hurt at first. Don't start off your venture into anal sex without first fucking your ass yourself. Dildoes, vibrators, butt plugs, a pepperoni...there are plenty of options. Go to a sex shoppe or order from a catalog. It's a must to use plenty of water based lube that won't ruin condoms or toys. I have a glass dildoe (it's thick Pyrex glass and won't break) so i can use oil-based lubes.
The trick to great anal is to go slowly. Lube your hole first, then lube the toy well, and insert it slowly until the pain hits. Stop and wait until the pain passes. Pull it out, then stuff it in again, this time further. In and out, in and out, until it's buried all the way. Having a suction cup base on the toy helps so you can ride it and play with your pussy (or cock). Although women don't have a prostate to stimulate like men do (and that gives us guys an amazing orgasm) you can still get off on it. Plenty of women love anal. Give it a try, and when you can fuck your ass with ease, it's time to let a guy in your backdoor.

 

[ELAINE]

Thank you for helping me. The information you all gave me is so helpful and very much appreciated. There is so much more to it than I thought and having you explain everything, makes it that much less scary. It would defiantly have to be with someone I feel safe with and trust. Thank you again.

 

[KaraBulut]

Read through the posts in this forum. Questions about anal sex are probably one of the most commonly asked questions and the forum contains a lot of good information on the subject.

To answer your two questions:

Is anal sex not sore once it's in?

That depends upon the experience of the person getting fucked and the skill of the person doing the fucking. Most people say that the first couple of times getting fucked is painful but once they have learned to relax their ass, the sensation is very pleasurable. It's also important for the person doing the fucking to take their time and not rush things.

and will you're whole get too big if you keep doing it? because I've seen pictures of really big wholes.

The asshole is made to stretch. The average penis is not much larger than the things that normally come out of the colon, so the asshole will accommodate easily stretch to the side of the average male dick or the reasonably sized dildo. As long as your not using toys that are outside the normal size of the penis, you shouldn't have any problems and you shouldn't do any harm.

 

[Letterbomb]

You should do some preparation, like fingering yourself (or from your partner) or trying with sex toys. It is not adviced to use a Dildo or a vibrator anally (you do not have a smallest idea how often I said this sentence) as it might get lost, as unlike your vagina, which "stops" after a certain distance (you see that we gays don't have many experiences with female bodies?) except butt plugs or godemiche. It WILL hurt for the very first time, and many times after, just like vaginal sex for virgins, and it hurts even more, and you might never get used to it! Use plenty of K-Y jelly, saliva is not a good lube for the first time. And if it starts hurting, say no! But after getting used to it, it's HEAVEN, even tought I think I'm saying this because we have prostates, so it's even better for bottom men...
Well, ask if you have something specific you wanna know, and cum see this site, I know it's very stupid, but it was my motivation for losing my anal virginity... Really!

 

[ELAINE]

There is so much I didn't realize, I'm glad I asked. Thank you.