Anal training kit

[Davel23]

Hey All,

just wondering if anyone could recommend a good anal training kit to help stretch me out?

I have a very tight hole but love being rimmed and fingered but struggle to take cock. I'd love to be fucked and enjoy bottoming so any help would be great.

Thanks,
Dave

 

[KaraBulut]

Since you're having trouble getting over the hump (no pun intended) where you learn to relax when something is being put into your ass, a set of graduated butt plugs would work for both learning to relax and ramping up to bigger toys.

In general, butt plugs are good options because:

1. They are affordable.
2. They are tapered (which gives you a chance to take as much as you're able to)
3. They have a handle to grab onto.
4. They can be left in to allow you to get used to the sensation of having something up your ass.
5. They're smooth and they're available in jelly or rubber.

Believe it or not, butt plug sets are available on commercial sites like Amazon (search "butt plug sex beginners") and on on adult websites like Adam Male. On the adult sites, there are different types of trainers - a set of butt plugs of different sizes, an inflatable plug that can be pumped to be larger, et al.

One suggestion: there's a lot of battery powered anal toys. For a beginner, you want to stick with the basics- something that is similar to the length/width of an average penis and something that works like a real penis (i.e. real penises don't vibrate). Also pay attention to the lube that works with the type of toy you buy- some types of lubes will damage toys over time, so buy the right type of lube for the toys you chose.

There's more suggestions in the All About Ass sticky thread on this forum.

 

[imariver]

I personally believe, that there's no such thing that will "train" your butt, except your mind! If you like to bottom, then you should assume a position where you are on top, (of the top) so that you control how you're being penertrated. Once he's inside you, just sit on it and relax, get used to the feeling. You'll never enjoy it if your top is fucking you from behind with all his might! A finger or two and lots of proper lube, is all the training you'll need. When my partner wants to fuck me from behind, I will literally tell him how I want it done, then as time goes by and I get used to him, it becomes a lot more comfortable for me. Buying an anal trainer . . . . don't waste your money, train your top instead.