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And so it happens...

There's a consistent pattern with this guy. He runs hot and cold, on and off, up and down.

The question is why you're continuing to be dragged around by all of this?

You're inexperienced but this is a bad pattern to get into and it's one that only reads to frustration and unhappiness- as you're discovering.

P.S. Congrats on coming out to your friends. Glad to hear that they're being supportive.
 
Ha, it's so easy to get attached to your first guy.

There have been several plausible replies, and I don't know enough about the guy to suggest which one is best.

So maybe keep this guy in your back pocket, but don't turn anyone else down in the meantime. It will probably not work out, so keep looking for other guys to date.

People are weird. Sometimes they do shit like this because they like you (go figure!), sometimes they're just freaked out by how much they liked it, sometimes they shouldn't really be with another person, and sometimes they have no idea how to deal with people.
 
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