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Annoyed with my Straight Friends/Roommate

vwjettaluva

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Maybe it’s just me and maybe it’s just because I’m personally lonely with ZERO prospects, but I get so incredibly annoyed when my straight friends vividly discuss their sexual experiences with me. Honestly I’d rather keep it out of sight and out of mind. I’d certainly never tell them if I ever hook up with someone off Grindr because they probably don’t want to hear about me sucking cock.

Most recent example; my roommate who is also a very good friend (but I’m not sexually attracted to him) had a woman he met on a gaming website drive 300 miles to our town just to spend the weekend with him in a motel doing god knows what. He knows I’m not a fan of random people coming into our apartment especially since I don’t know this bitch and I’ve got thousands of dollars worth of nice electronics in my living room. As a rule we don’t bring sex into our apartment so neither person is uncomfortable, yet he proceeded to bring this slut into our home after they checked out the hotel and I had to hear them talking about their freaky weekend. Naturally, I’m fucking livid and I’m ready to stop talking to him. He’s smart enough to pick up on the fact I’m pissed off when he sees me as he passes through the common area on his way to and from the kitchen, yet because he hates confrontation he hasn’t said shit to me.

At this point, I’m ready to let my straight friends go because I just can’t deal with it anymore; I’m not prude or anything but I’m not into being privy to freaky conversation just because they found some woman stupid enough to spread their legs for them. Am I overreacting?
 
Absolutely. While I get your concerns about letting someone you don't know into your apartment, if you guys are roommates, you both have the right to bring guests into that living space. If he wants to show someone where he lives, then he has a right to do so. If you want to give up a friendship over that, then yes, I would say that is overreacting.
 
vwjettaluva said:
Maybe it’s just me and maybe it’s just because I’m personally lonely with ZERO prospects, but I get so incredibly annoyed when my straight friends vividly discuss their sexual experiences with me. Honestly I’d rather keep it out of sight and out of mind. I’d certainly never tell them if I ever hook up with someone off Grindr because they probably don’t want to hear about me sucking cock.

Most recent example; my roommate who is also a very good friend (but I’m not sexually attracted to him) had a woman he met on a gaming website drive 300 miles to our town just to spend the weekend with him in a motel doing god knows what. He knows I’m not a fan of random people coming into our apartment especially since I don’t know this bitch and I’ve got thousands of dollars worth of nice electronics in my living room. As a rule we don’t bring sex into our apartment so neither person is uncomfortable, yet he proceeded to bring this slut into our home after they checked out the hotel and I had to hear them talking about their freaky weekend. Naturally, I’m fucking livid and I’m ready to stop talking to him. He’s smart enough to pick up on the fact I’m pissed off when he sees me as he passes through the common area on his way to and from the kitchen, yet because he hates confrontation he hasn’t said shit to me.

At this point, I’m ready to let my straight friends go because I just can’t deal with it anymore; I’m not prude or anything but I’m not into being privy to freaky conversation just because they found some woman stupid enough to spread their legs for them. Am I overreacting?
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No I don't think so. I think you were right.
 
So tell me what is the real problem?

Because i just cannot imagine you getting so pissed off with a mate because he had sex, and you did not.
 
Oh I could care less if any of my friends have sex, anymore than they care who I sleep with. I just have no interest in hearing about it or meeting the dumb sluts they fornicate with
 
So a guy that sleeps around is a stud, a player, a romeo. Whereas a girl is a slut?

I honestly cannot see why this upsets you. He is a friend, if you did not like this girl in the "shared" home then have a chat with your mate.
Disparaging the girl is not the way to go about showing your displeasure.
 
You have the right to set are ground rules you’d like with a cooperating roommate, but what to do when they’re broken? Doing nothing pretty much negates the rule.

Do you have an issue with your roommate bringing guy friends over? If not, this is then more about sex than you’re admitting.
 
I have straight house mates and we talk about almost everything include sexual details ...
Nothing wrong with talking about sexual details who likes what ..who likes pussy and who likes cocks.

It takes two to talk about this sort of stuff, if you change the topic or don't want to talk about it, it is up to you. About bringing other peoples home, there should be rules and limits on how often.
 
The rule is,
if you bring friend here too often and it irritates me, you have to find another place so you can have more freedom.
 
if you have both agreed that no one is to bring a partner back and this is then broken, then yeah there is a ground to be pissed but tbh i feel that it is slightly over the top.

If you had great sex with someone and then talked about it but your freind acted with great disgust would you not feel slightly offended? i mean freinds talk about this stuff. Tell him to not go in to too much detail if thats what you want.
 
Ummm... Yes! If you don't want to hear about it and it makes you (beyond) uncomfortable, simply say "TMI" Why is it because he's straight? If it were a hot slutty male, would that be okay? I think you might possibly have stronger feelings for your roommate or are just jealous.
 
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