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Approaching your Straight Friend

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charkyle33

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Do you think when guys have taken a shot, is it more of a chance a friendship is lost or a fantasy granted?

I have a friend that initiated jacking off together, stayed naked around the house, talks dirty about me gagging on his cock, but when I call him on it - he gets pissed-tough read. Just want to hear other experiences similar.
 
sound like yuour friend is a straight baiter, He is trying to figure you out, He may have suspion that you are gay or he just wants to tease you,
 
He might be projecting his own self hatred on you - by self hatred I mean he might have regretted or judged himself for the experience and instead of understaning and owning it for what it is he is might take his anger or shame out on you.
 
Your friend is just teasing you and he gets a kick out of getting you excited. I would just let it go. In my experiences if a "straight" guy wants to mess around its going to happen no beating around the bush.
 
I wish my straight friend would let me suck his cock! I have wanted to ever since we were Freshmen, thank god for gym class! Hello shower time! He keeps getting hooked up with these trashy skanks who break his heart and hurt him! The guy has a heart of gold! I can't fathom him as anything but the sweetheart I know him to be but these bitches keep cheating on him, leaving him and just fucking with him! Honestly some of these stupid broads don't know a diamond when they have one!
 
We are on similar pages. Whats odd is when I first meet guys who become my friend, its never bc Im attracted to them. Its usually after I watch them fuck (college) or hear about one of their stories. But the guy I posted about, i had moved back to town with a job. My employer put me up for a month or so and naturally they get me a king size bed. So this guy I posted about calls me and says I need to work that way, can I stay with u a couple of days. I said sure.

We go out, drink margarita and get pretty lit. Back at hotel and says, no clothes in the bed. I said “im down.” We are spread apart, we talked and i thought we were about to go so sleep when he pulls me onto my back and is kind of sideways laying across me. Im thinking oh shit, here we go. He is quite and staring into my eyes getting closer and closer and he bails back to the other side but here is the thing. I was on his computer one day and bigcocks came up. The other thing is on occasion he would ask me to rub his back; when I would try to turn him over, he would get pissed and it was because his dick was hard from me rubbing his back.
 
Last time I blew a straight friend it took a year of convincing - when it finally happened he said he was playing hard to get - we are still friends
 
charkyle33 said:
We are on similar pages. Whats odd is when I first meet guys who become my friend, its never bc Im attracted to them. Its usually after I watch them fuck (college) or hear about one of their stories. But the guy I posted about, i had moved back to town with a job. My employer put me up for a month or so and naturally they get me a king size bed. So this guy I posted about calls me and says I need to work that way, can I stay with u a couple of days. I said sure.

We go out, drink margarita and get pretty lit. Back at hotel and says, no clothes in the bed. I said “im down.” We are spread apart, we talked and i thought we were about to go so sleep when he pulls me onto my back and is kind of sideways laying across me. Im thinking oh shit, here we go. He is quite and staring into my eyes getting closer and closer and he bails back to the other side but here is the thing. I was on his computer one day and bigcocks came up. The other thing is on occasion he would ask me to rub his back; when I would try to turn him over, he would get pissed and it was because his dick was hard from me rubbing his back.
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But is it really worth it?

If you are both going to hang out in the closet then it seems like an awful lot of work to have him not do anything but create anxiety for you and himself.

He is obviously as queer as a 3 dollar bill but is terrified/guilty/ashamed. This could be turned against you.

Sometime when you aren't drunk, maybe tell him that you like him (if you really do) as a friend and that he can trust you no matter what for anything.
 
What more are you looking for?
 
There are closeted gays who are not gay: they have the curiosity, and they have the desire to be worshipped by men physically, or served, but not the social stigma.

As in so many sexual aspects, power is in play. He toys with you, then punishes you. He works you up, then pushes you away.

Some of this is part of the male persona, seeking danger, dominating, breaking taboos, etc. There is also the habit men have of talking explicitly about sex in front of other men to validate themselves as alphas.

Cityboy-STL called it pretty well. Tell him it's either gay or not gay, but not play gay. Alternatively, if you just want a straight friend for flirting, if that is enough, then you could retain the friendship, play along, and continue, but leave your feelings in the drawer, as they will hurt you needlessly.
 
Well glad to see that you got what you needed and can hopefully sort this out with your 'straight' friend.
 
@charkyle33, be upfront and honest to this friend that you are a gay guy. So be sure that your friend is very aware that he is engaging with a gay friend when he wants to play with you (or whatever he wants to do with you).
 
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