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Are these feelings weird?

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Hi guys.

Last Friday I had a cycling date with one boy, 22 yo, about as high as me (5'9") and weight similar to me (he is 58 kg - 128 lbs, Im 61 kg - 134 lbs). Im 24 yo BTW.

On Monday we had another cycling date.

Well, I feel very good when with him, we communicate well, I find him quite attractive, I feel even emotionally attached and so far everything is good (even though I would perhaps want to move faster to kissing and having sex stage lol).

However, even though he is handsome enough, I still have a paradoxical lure of having someone a bit higher, heavier, more masculine etc. So I have this urge even though I know I would be probably rejected with 90% + probability cause I'm not that muscular, well masculine, big dick guy :-)

Is this kind of feelings normal?
 
Not weired, but you need to get over it. You have found a guy you find "quite" attractive and, to you, he is handsome and you get along well with him. However, you may risk what could develop because you want heavier, more masculine etc. Why not hold out for big dick, wealthy, has a nice house, etc. You'll find you will be waiting a long time my friend. All the things you mentioned should have nothing to do with it should you fall in love with him. Believe me, none of it will matter if you are actually lucky enough that you two guys fall in love with each other. I instantly fell in love with my sweetheart when I was 17 and he was nothing like I thought I was attracted to at the time, that was for 33yrs until his passing. Give it some time.
 
You're feelings are not weird. In every relationship, there always has to be SOME level of physical attraction. People cannot deny that. That said, it seems you have that physical attraction, he's just not your fantasy/ideal/dream guy. Which is fine. Because in reality you have a good guy who you like. Be happy and see what happens :)
 
Not much more to say except to repeat that ideal attraction and reality can converge on some level. As we get to know people on an intimate level our hearts and souls become excited in the same way our brains and genitals do. There's a wonderful old song, "Watch What Happens."
 
Thanks guys!

That's exactly how I feel. Though I have the kind of fantasies over hot big muscular guys, I am quite aware I have to be with feet on the ground appreciate what I have and not what I could THEORETICALLY have. Thanks! :-)
 
Fantasy and ideal are not always as exciting as you imagined when they become reality. Also, being with someone bigger than myself (I am 5'9 150lbs and he's 6'2 and about 190/200lbs and frankly a little cub-like) we find it difficult to explore sex sometimes, or even embrace becuase of the height difference.
 
Interesting point meatpackage! Yeah, it makes sense :-) Thanks for the comment
 
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