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Are you honest with your Bf?

NickCole

NickCole

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My boyfriend knows everything.

Secrets are a heavy burden and I need at least one person in the world who knows all the worst stuff about me and loves me anyway. The level of comfort and security that provides is beyond measure.
 
You learn real quick that secrets are stupid, so just say it and say it quickly. Its only worse if you keep it secret or take a long time to tell. The secrecy tends to be more damaging to a relationship's security and trust, than an actual misdeed.
 
Honesty is always the best policy
 
Openness and honesty are important for the success of any relationship. I speak from the perspective of a relationship that is almost 28 years old.
 
If I had one (<-- wtf, really, lol) I'd be honest with him!
 
If I had a boyfriend at all: I would never keep secrets (I know what it feels like to have secrets kept from me) - nor would he know everything about me at first, it's a gradual learning process. I would never cheat on him (why cheat when I have what I want already - that's why I don't understand the whole cheating thing).

What's the point in being in a relationship at all if you're not going to be honest? Do you have a death wish for the relationship?

Like it's been said before: secrets and deception are stupid and senseless. I'm honest with all of my friends and I would expect the same from them.
 
Not boyfriend, per se, but I do tell the girlfriend everything... really. Though I really have nothing to hide from her, once the little "I get off to gay porn" thing was revealed.
 
IF I had one, I'd be as honest as he wanted me to be with him.

If he asked, I'd tell the truth on any issue that he was curious about.

Although, there are obivious exceptions.

Without a wedding ring, he's not getting my credit card numbers or my debit card PIN...
 
ftlauderdalevisit said:
How many guys keep stuff hidden from their bf's for example how many guys you had sex with? You still hit on guys or even cheated on him.
My bf does not know how many guys i have had sex with and that I cheated once which I regret doing and I constatntly flirt with guys online and in public.
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Did I hear something about honesty, respect, and sensitivity? Oh, I guess I just thought I heard that, sorry. Never mind.
:rolleyes:

just the local village idiot, who knows nothing about any of this.:confused:
 
Hey name taken! Your hotttt I want u to be my bf! Thankz to sharing your dick pix your hot! Will u marry me? I don't have bf this past few yrs! Its suckz
 
I guess it depends on what you refer to a BF. If he is someone you are casually dating, it really doesn't matter. If it is a mate or partner, then honesty is always the only way to go.
If the dude is someone you are casually with, maybe have sex with once in a while, and there are no commitments, well you owe each other nothing.

But don't get upset when you hide stuff from this casual b/f and he comes to you with a big surprise..... he has been hiding stuff from you too. Depends on how serious the relationship is, how serious you intend it to become.
 
NickCole said:
My boyfriend knows everything.

Secrets are a heavy burden and I need at least one person in the world who knows all the worst stuff about me and loves me anyway. The level of comfort and security that provides is beyond measure.
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I couldn't have put it better myself.
 
I'm open and honest with everyone close in my life - not just him.
 
YES, I was completely honest with him. :D

If only he was still mine........:(
 
I'm honest with everyone, not just my bf. Although, that's not to say some things still stay private, though. Some things just aren't meant to be shared, and only a select few that I know I can count on I share those things with.
 
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