Are you really Bi?

[greyboy07]

When you get into sexuality spiritually some people, like me, believe the "soul" (or a variant of soul) is genderless.

Therefore, I fall for who I fall for.
I love who I love

And I enjoy sex with who ever I can whenever I can, because I like it.

Well said! My feelings exactly...

 

[mnpervert]

I have always labeled myself as Bi but about 10 years ago at Pride I introduced myself as a Bi man and after further discussion with a group they agreed that I was Pansexual since it seemed like gender or identity didnt matter to me. Which is true I have had sex and relationsships with men, women and trans. I am attracted to many different types.
I still just say I am Bi most folks understand that.

 

[72-Jay]

I consider myself bi.. While I'm more strongly attracted towards guys, I definitely have some attraction to girls too.
Also consider myself to be somewhat asexual too.

 

[ricksvca]

Sometimes I think that bi guys say that they are gay just because it sounds better then saying that they are gay. I talk to many "bi" guys but something would tell me that they just like the word. So question, do you think that this is true?

I am bisexual. I love sex with both men and women.

When I have sex with a man for me it is all about the cock and only the cock with almost every man I have had sex with. The second man to give me a BJ was one of my best friends,(his name was Terry) who was gay and I was attracted to the whole man, the way he looked, his personality, intelligence and eventually his cock, especially his cock. We were very close friends and one night when I was over at his apartment he just came right out and told me he wanted to give me a blowjob. This happened when I was 26. I turned him down but inside I was turned on by the idea, very turned on. I was not really surprised when he did this because he had told me previously that he was very attracted to me. He did not know that when I was 22 I had let a man, a complete stranger, give me a hand job in a straight porn theater. It was 1976 and I was 22. I didn't reciprocate. This was a very spontaneous experience and was definitely not something I was looking for or expected to happen, especially in a straight porn theater but there was no question that I thoroughly enjoyed this experience.

After my friend propositioned me I was intrigued by the idea of not only letting a man give me a BJ but also of me giving a man a BJ. A few months after he propositioned me I went to SF (I lived in LA) to find out if I actually could give a man a BJ and would I actually like it.. I hooked up with a man in the sauna. We went to his room and I sucked his cock. I let him cum in my mouth. I knew as soon as I touched his cock and took him into my mouth that I loved sucking cock. I wanted the full blowjob experience and that meant having him cum in mouth and me swallowing all of his cum. I did not ask him to reciprocate and I left his room soon after he had cum.. The next step for me was to see what it was like to have a man give me a BJ. Seven months later I went to a bathhouse in West Hollywood for the sole purpose of hooking up with a man and having him give me a BJ. A guy came onto me, said I had a nice cock and asked me if he could touch my cock. I said yes and he proceeded to give me a BJ. It felt amazing and I came in his mouth after about 15 minutes. I already knew I loved sucking a man's dick so after I came t told him I wanted to suck him off and that he could cum in my mouth. After that experience I knew I was bisexual.

A couple of years later when I was certain that I could totally trust my friend Terry I called him on a Saturday morning and told him I would let him give me a BJ. Forty five minutes later I was in his apartment, totally naked, laying on his bed and receiving the best blowjob I had ever had. We didn't hook up again until four years later when I was at his apartment, and said I had to use the bathroom. When I came out of the bathroom I was totally naked and I laid out on the loveseat facing the couch where he was sitting. He was in total shock.. He started sucking my cock and after about 20 minutes I told him I wanted to give him a hand job. It was only then that he took all his clothes off and I saw him naked for the first time . His cock was already hard and I knew I just had to have him in my mouth. I just skipped the hand job and went straight to sucking his very large, very thick cut cock with the largest mushroom head I have ever seen until he came in my mouth. I spent the night and the next morning I woke him up by pulling his underwear down and sucking his cock until he came. He then did me again. .

I am far far more attracted to women than I am men and probably at least 90% of my sexual experiences have been with women. I have no desire to have a "relationship" other than sexual with a man. My sexual relationship with Terry lasted for 15 years. It was very intense and something I really enjoyed most frequently from 1988 when I got divorced thru 1992. I am bisexual and most definitely not gay. I would like to add that gay porn does nothing for me sexually. Male/Female, Female/Female, solo woman masturbating and occasionally a solo man masturbating are the only types of porn I like.

 

[magicdick]

Sometimes I think that bi guys say that they are gay just because it sounds better then saying that they are gay. I talk to many "bi" guys but something would tell me that they just like the word. So question, do you think that this is true?

No. Don't project.

 

[magicdick]

I have never been with a guy.......but I really want to and I am working to reach my goal. I guess I am bi-curious for now, but soon I hope to claim the "bi" label. Wahoo!!

I am bi because I meet the unambiguous denotation. If you want to be with a guy, you have to go for it. I went from straight to bi in a microsecond. For whatever reason I just knew I would like sucking cock and cum and balls and love getting fucked. There was no doubt in my mind. And I was right. Without the many men who I have sucked, without the many gallons of cum in my mouth and all over my face, my life would be much emptier. Noticed I omitted "all the cum in my pussy". I've only been fucked 4 times. Takes time and place to get fucked. I have the time, but seldom the place.

 

[wolfypdx]

I went through a brief period when I claimed to be bi. Okay, not so brief - close to 15 years. I knew I was sexually attracted to men, but I was still trying to be straight, so I was dating and fucking women, not men.

Soon after I became really aware that I really wanted to have sex with men, that it wasn't just a passing fancy, I started telling the occasional trusted friend that I thought I was bi. As time went on, though, my attraction to men became more certain, and I moved from "I think I'm bi" to "I'm bi".

Once I realized that I really wasn't sexually attracted to women at all is when I started telling people I was gay, and I've been gay ever since.