As a bottom how do I get ready for sex?

[TheSilverScreen04]

I know there's things I should do before, but I'm not sure what they are. Any pointers?

 

[Shelby29]

I know there's things I should do before, but I'm not sure what they are. Any pointers?

Get a hand-held douche (squeezebulb and tip that screws on that has holes.) use it to clean out your rectum. There are tutorial videos that are available online. Google them. Drug stores sell them.

 

[BiGuy1970]

I use those thin plastic water bottles.

 

[Shelby29]

I use those thin plastic water bottles.

yeah they work, too!

 

[paulad39uk]

You can also order them on line at places like Amazon, if you are embarrassed to go into a Pharmacy and ask. You can get the bulbs as Shelby29 stated or the shower attachments. None are very expensive less than $20 for the most expensive. As Biguy1970 says a soft plastic water bottle will work but the edges may be a bit rough. I will say be careful how hot (you don't want internal burns) if you have the shower attachment, and for that matter how cold the water is, it can be a bit of a shock.use a nice warm body temperature. Keep using until the water runs clear, and wash the douche very well after use with hot soapy water, to prevent you getting an infection.

If you're talking about stretching as well, after douching finger yourself using lube and increase the amount of fingers you use, 2-3 is about the size of most cocks' diameter.

Also don't forget the condoms if you don't want to pick up any STD's.

 

[Shelby29]

You can also order them on line at places like Amazon, if you are embarrassed to go into a Pharmacy and ask. You can get the bulbs as Shelby29 stated or the shower attachments. None are very expensive less than $20 for the most expensive. As Biguy1970 says a soft plastic water bottle will work but the edges may be a bit rough. I will say be careful how hot (you don't want internal burns) if you have the shower attachment, and for that matter how cold the water is, it can be a bit of a shock.use a nice warm body temperature. Keep using until the water runs clear, and wash the douche very well after use with hot soapy water, to prevent you getting an infection.

If you're talking about stretching as well, after douching finger yourself using lube and increase the amount of fingers you use, 2-3 is about the size of most cocks' diameter.

Also don't forget the condoms if you don't want to pick up any STD's.

TheSilver Screen certainly has a lot of good advice. Thanks paulad39uk for adding to it!

 

[MoaningMike]

There is an excellent book called “How To Bottom Without Pain Or Stains” that you can order on Amazon.com for $14.99
I bought it a few years ago, and even though I’ve been getting cornholed since I was in my teens (and using toys before I took a dick), I found the book to be a revelation. It’s got everything you need to know, and answers every question you might have about bottoming and anal health. ItÂ’s got lots of information from real doctors which helps.

Aside from getting your hole clean, the best advice I could give from decades of experience is to play with your hole by yourself lots of times before you let a real dick in your backdoor. Get some dildos in various sizes, start with the smallest one. Just shopping for one is fun since there are numerous kinds. Prostate massagers are also great, although they donÂ’t often resemble a dick. A vibrating dildo is a must, it will make you cum like crazy. One with a suction cup base is great because it allows you to ride it without having to use your hand to shove it and out.

The more you practice by yourself, the more ready you’ll be when it comes time to take the real thing. Anal can be painful if you do it wrong, and the last thing you want to do is for the both of you to get really horny, you let him enter you, and then you have to make him stop because it hurts too much. After enough training with toys you’ll be able to take it with joy and soon be begging him to fuck you harder and faster. Once you start using toys it by yourself it will become a lifelong hobby. Jerking off is a million times more fun with something up your hungry manhole.

 

[offthewall14420]

Fiber is your friend.

 

[jockofstrap]

The way to hot fuck is clean ass.

 

[Shelby29]

The way to hot fuck is clean ass.

You got that right.

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Fiber is your friend.

Yup, a fiber-rich breakfast for me everyday!

 

[Shelby29]

There is an excellent book called “How To Bottom Without Pain Or Stains” that you can order on Amazon.com for $14.99
I bought it a few years ago, and even though I’ve been getting cornholed since I was in my teens (and using toys before I took a dick), I found the book to be a revelation. It’s got everything you need to know, and answers every question you might have about bottoming and anal health. ItÂ’s got lots of information from real doctors which helps.

Aside from getting your hole clean, the best advice I could give from decades of experience is to play with your hole by yourself lots of times before you let a real dick in your backdoor. Get some dildos in various sizes, start with the smallest one. Just shopping for one is fun since there are numerous kinds. Prostate massagers are also great, although they donÂ’t often resemble a dick. A vibrating dildo is a must, it will make you cum like crazy. One with a suction cup base is great because it allows you to ride it without having to use your hand to shove it and out.

The more you practice by yourself, the more ready you’ll be when it comes time to take the real thing. Anal can be painful if you do it wrong, and the last thing you want to do is for the both of you to get really horny, you let him enter you, and then you have to make him stop because it hurts too much. After enough training with toys you’ll be able to take it with joy and soon be begging him to fuck you harder and faster. Once you start using toys it by yourself it will become a lifelong hobby. Jerking off is a million times more fun with something up your hungry manhole.

Sounds like some excellent reading for The Silver Screen 04 and anyone else, too. Wish there had been a book like this when I was starting out. I'll probably get a copy from Amazon myself. Thanks MMike!