Ass to pussy

[slyfer]

So this is a serious question. To any of you guys out there who had sex with guys and girls. Honestly, taking out the equation of looks or anything besides what's in question. Which would you prefer to have? Which was the best? When you had ass and then had pussy, was it a vast improvement? Any other thoughts? I'm trying to see if i should hook my ex-bf up with a girl, just so he can experience something with a girl cuz he's having identity crisis i think. He just wants to know what it's like, but tell me if you would advise against this if you think we might not have a chance at getting back together because of this. For the record with us, it wasn't only about the sex. And he basically says I'm the only guy he'd fool around with(outside of celebrities). So i think it's one of those "attracted to the person" things with him. But like i said, thoughts? thanks

 

[TheTrish]

Hi, sly! EVERYBODY better answer "pussy." I'll be disappointed if I hear "ass!" LOL

T

 

[elvnguardian]

How about the Third alternative... Cock

The greatest Play thing the gods ever placed upon this earth

 

[JakeLucas]

Let me answer your question by re-wording the question:

Which would you prefer to have? Which was the best? When you had an apple and then had an orange, was it a vast improvement?

I'm trying to see if i should hook my ex-bf up with a girl, just so he can experience something with a girl cuz he's having identity crisis i think.

Any other thoughts?

Just this: it's his identity and his crisis, so there's probably not much you can do to get him through it.

Also, it's been my experience that third-party hook-ups usually don't work out. If he decides he wants pussy, he can probably find some.

BTW, what if he decides he likes pussy better? Where does that leave you?

 

[TheTrish]

So this is a serious question.

Hi, sly! Sorry, I think my first response put a damper on replys.

I would really like to know too. Almost every guy I meet, on-line or in real life, within 30 minutes, starts talking about wanting to FUCK me in the ass. Is ass that good?

T

 

[Frafilippolippi]

Is ass that good?

Yes. Yes it is.

 

[justsimon]

I usually prefer ass, of either gender.

 

[Frafilippolippi]

All this ass-lovin' may give the pussies out there an inferiority complex... When it comes to intensity and tightness, ass is gonna beat pussy every time. However, there is something special about pussy, a softness maybe, I can't find the word. When in a relationship with a guy I definitely found myself craving pussy. So let's hear it for pussy!

 

[bma1983]

When in a relationship with a guy I definitely found myself craving pussy. So let's hear it for pussy!

It's funny, one of my best friends ex-boyfriends was bi, and he always cheated on him with women. Your comment was his excuse.

So I'll ask you what I asked the cheating boyfriend. If pussy is so special and good, why not stick with women and leave the gay men alone? Women, unlike men, can give you both.

 

[DicDude]

while both has some advantages,I will take ass everytime,,not only is it tighter but I know there is a cock on the other side usually,lol

 

[bma1983]

Both women can't give you cock!!!!!

Tell her to buy a strap-on.

 

[blueto21]

So I'll ask you what I asked the cheating boyfriend. If pussy is so special and good, why not stick with women and leave the gay men alone? Women, unlike men, can give you both.

I agree 100% with this comment.

 

[Caution]

im a ass man but some gurls ...... guys its okay. but i prefer pum pum. guys are sometimes too ruff and hairy:yuck:

 

[Frafilippolippi]

It's funny, one of my best friends ex-boyfriends was bi, and he always cheated on him with women. Your comment was his excuse.

So I'll ask you what I asked the cheating boyfriend. If pussy is so special and good, why not stick with women and leave the gay men alone? Women, unlike men, can give you both.

This comment and its sentiment (which I've seen too often on this site) does not make me happy.

First- I'm not your best-friend's ex-boyfriend. I have never screwed around on anyone. What he did was wrong, so don't lump me in with him. That's logic 101.

Second- People screw around on each other all the time. Accusing bisexuals is absurd and hurtful. How many gay guys screw around with other gay guys? Is that less hurtful. The guy you talked about was a jerk. I think it stinks when anyone breaks a promise in a relationship, regardless of how it was broken.


Third- Just because I craved pussy while in a gay relationship (and vice versa) doesn't mean that I'm going to screw around on my partner. It means being creative instead.

Fourth- To suggest that being able to fuck a woman in the ass (as pleasant as that might be )is all that is needed to satisfy gay desire is absurd in the extreme. When I'm with a man I want to be with him because he is a man. Because of all that makes him a man, not just his cock, but his hair, his way of thinking, the way he smells...

We have been put down by others so much, why must we put each other down?

F.

 

[bma1983]

This comment and its sentiment (which I've seen too often on this site) does not make me happy.

First- I'm not your best-friend's ex-boyfriend. I have never screwed around on anyone. What he did was wrong, so don't lump me in with him. That's logic 101.

I'm not lumping you with him. I'm just saying that you, as a bi man, shared the same sentiments with another bi man, who so happened to cheat on my best friend because he craved pussy so much.

Second- People screw around on each other all the time. Accusing bisexuals is absurd and hurtful. How many gay guys screw around with other gay guys? Is that less hurtful. The guy you talked about was a jerk. I think it stinks when anyone breaks a promise in a relationship, regardless of how it was broken.

When did I accuse bi's of anything? Yes gay men do cheat on their boyfriends. Many gay men do. No, it's not less hurtful. But for me, I would rather him cheat on me with another man instead of with a woman. Him cheating on me with a woman (or him thinking about a woman and her pussy) is his way of telling me that there are many ways in which I can never fully satisfy him. I thinks it's a tremendous insult. That's just me.

Third- Just because I craved pussy while in a gay relationship (and vice versa) doesn't mean that I'm going to screw around on my partner. It means being creative instead.

To me, if my boyfriend craves something that I could never give him, I would be very insecure, and probably end the relationship before he does something we would both regret. That's why I wouldn't choose to date bi men. And craving something is almost just as bad as actually getting it.

Fourth- To suggest that being able to fuck a woman in the ass (as pleasant as that might be )is all that is needed to satisfy gay desire is absurd in the extreme. When I'm with a man I want to be with him because he is a man. Because of all that makes him a man, not just his cock, but his hair, his way of thinking, the way he smells...

Well if you want to be with a man, don't think about being with a woman. Your statement: "When in a relationship with a guy I definitely found myself craving pussy. So let's hear it for pussy!" shows you don't know what you want, at least that's how I see it.

We have been put down by others so much, why must we put each other down?

F.

I'm not putting anyone down. At least that wasn't my intention.

 

[Frafilippolippi]

bma after hearing your responses I was wondering why you're on the bi/straight board?

When you wrote:

"So I'll ask you what I asked the cheating boyfriend. If pussy is so special and good, why not stick with women and leave the gay men alone?" The suggestion (whether or not you intended it) is that my presence is in some way harming gay men, as was the person before your friend (let's call him the jerk 'cause he sounds like one) So when you later wrote: "I'm not lumping you with him." I would say that you are.


Again, when you said, "why not stick with women and leave the gay men alone?" It reads like an accusation, so when you later wrote: "When did I accuse bi's of anything?" I believe the latter comment to be false.

As for this comment, I can't really speak to it, as it is a personal feeling that you have: "I would rather him cheat on me with another man instead of with a woman."

The same with this, it is a very personal response: "That's why I wouldn't choose to date bi men."

This statement: "Well if you want to be with a man, don't think about being with a woman." Is just a rewording of the "have you tried being straight?" argument so many of us heard. Can you not think about other guys when you're with a guy? I am bi and always will be. I will always want cock and pussy, but in a monogamous relationship I will always have to be creative. And persuasive.


This comment: "Your statement: "When in a relationship with a guy I definitely found myself craving pussy. So let's hear it for pussy!" shows you don't know what you want, at least that's how I see it." Is absurd in the extreme. I know exactly what I want: cock and pussy.

Finally, I do appreciate this comment a lot: "I'm not putting anyone down. At least that wasn't my intention."

 

[bma1983]

bma after hearing your responses I was wondering why you're on the bi/straight board?

When you wrote:

"So I'll ask you what I asked the cheating boyfriend. If pussy is so special and good, why not stick with women and leave the gay men alone?" The suggestion (whether or not you intended it) is that my presence is in some way harming gay men, as was the person before your friend (let's call him the jerk 'cause he sounds like one) So when you later wrote: "I'm not lumping you with him." I would say that you are.


Again, when you said, "why not stick with women and leave the gay men alone?" It reads like an accusation, so when you later wrote: "When did I accuse bi's of anything?" I believe the latter comment to be false.

As for this comment, I can't really speak to it, as it is a personal feeling that you have: "I would rather him cheat on me with another man instead of with a woman."

The same with this, it is a very personal response: "That's why I wouldn't choose to date bi men."

This statement: "Well if you want to be with a man, don't think about being with a woman." Is just a rewording of the "have you tried being straight?" argument so many of us heard. Can you not think about other guys when you're with a guy? I am bi and always will be. I will always want cock and pussy, but in a monogamous relationship I will always have to be creative. And persuasive.


This comment: "Your statement: "When in a relationship with a guy I definitely found myself craving pussy. So let's hear it for pussy!" shows you don't know what you want, at least that's how I see it." Is absurd in the extreme. I know exactly what I want: cock and pussy.

Finally, I do appreciate this comment a lot: "I'm not putting anyone down. At least that wasn't my intention."

Is there some unwritten rule that says gays can't come on the bi/str8 section of a gay website? If it is, let me know.

You’re making this so much more than it really is. I simply asked you why be with men if you love pussy so much and also like ass. A woman has both. If you want dick, tell her to get a dildo to stick up your butt. It is not an accusation, it’s just a question. Simple as that.

I’ll say it again, you shared the same thoughts that my friends ex had. That is in no way saying that you yourself are a cheating jerk. I don’t know you, so I can’t make that assumption. Your comment just reminded me of what he said. Again, simple as that.

And I have another question for you, why would a gay man (or even bi man) want to be in a relationship with someone who, as you said in a previous post, “craves” someone else’s privates. For example, say you have a small dick, and your girlfriend craves a man with a big piece of meat between his legs. Would you honestly want to be with her? Would you not feel you’re inadequate in some way? Would you feel loved, wanted, appreciated? Likewise, if you are with a man and you crave the pussy that is so special and good as you say, do you think that man would like it. What’s the point of being in a relationship? You saying you are bi is just an excuse. I am more than sure that there are bi’s out there who, when they are in a relationship with someone, man or woman, they only crave being with that one person. Maybe I’m living in a fantasy world, but when you truly love someone, you only think about that one person. You don’t think about or crave someone else, their pussy, or their dick.

You say you want cock and pussy, well baby, maybe you will find that man and woman who want to be in a three person relationship with you, or better yet, maybe you’ll find that special hermaphrodite.

 

[TheTrish]

So let's hear it for pussy!

Hi, Fra! hehe Yes!

OK, I understand girls' ass is tight. But is a guy's pleasure so important to himself that he's willing to inflict pain for his own pleasure? Getting FUCKED in the ass hurts!

T

 

[lelyal]

Pretty stright forward question. Which do you prefer? Only a choice of two. No cock in the question. For me - pussy. All the way. No contest. It's just made for cock. The ultimate sensation.

 

[TheTrish]

Pretty stright forward question. Which do you prefer? Only a choice of two. No cock in the question. For me - pussy. All the way. No contest. It's just made for cock. The ultimate sensation.

Hi, lel! Good answer.

T