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Attraction to guys and being picky

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Yes, I'm attracted to guys only, but the only thing I'll ever do with a guy is oral and kissing. For me, I find asses very unattractive. I don't like looking at it, I'd never rim a guy, and well, there's nothing that does it for me there. I've been rimmed before and hated it. I don't know what it is, but anything associated with bottoms is a no go zone for me. So, is this common for gay guys?

And also I'm very picky towards guys. When I check out gay sites, such as manhunt, gaydar etc. the majority of the time 80% of guys I don't find attractive or I wouldn't fool around with. It's the same attractiveness to woman. I have no attraction to woman whatsoever. However, there's always that guy that I find extremely attractive and I'd wanna be with, but that's besides the point I'm making. Why am I so limited to finding guys attractive?
 
Sounds like you have some serious issues going on, mrdude.

Have you tried having sex in the dark?
 
Maybe you have to acquire the taste for not so "perfect" people. It worked for me. I find a lot of people attractive now.
 
Harke the Boeotarch said:
Sounds like you have some serious issues going on, mrdude.

Have you tried having sex in the dark?
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Issues? Such as not being comfortable with my sexuality?
No, I haven't had sex either, but I don't see why that would even be an issue either strictly on not finding a guys ass attractive.
 
I don't think it's a question of issues with your sexuality. I think you like what you like.
 
mrdude said:
Issues? Such as not being comfortable with my sexuality?
No, I haven't had sex either, but I don't see why that would even be an issue either strictly on not finding a guys ass attractive.
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A giant percentage of the time, guys who are extremely "picky" are using that as an excuse, for not taking the risk and putting themselves out there in any real way.
 
I find it odd when people insist that what you like exists in a vacuum and isn't related to our socialization/personality/issues, etc.

All of that affects what we find attractive, and what we find attractive can and does change.
 
There's liking what we like in theory and falling for someone in person who doesn't meet all our criteria. Nothing wrong with being picky, but don't be surprised when someone comes along and changes your mind.
 
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