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Luka

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Ok, so i joined manhunt, and this guy from around my area messeged me. I answered and he said he knew me, i was like really? cause i didnt have a pic. Hes like yea your Ricky *****! and I was like :eek::eek::eek::eek: who is this? hes like, we work together. I was like Jon? and it was!!! so we chatted, he didnt know i was out yet, and now we have to work together this weekend, how figin random. Its gonna be so awkward!!
 
Or it might be fun to have the secret between you. Don't anticipate the awkwardness, or you'll create it yourself. (*8*)
 
lols, lets hope so. Hes kinda fem, wish he wasnt or id go for him, lol
 
yeah that sounds like a fun coincidence. are you into him at all?
sounds like he could be into you.
and this could make for a sweet story that you can tell everyone when they ask how you two started dating. :)
 
been there done that in terms of being on those sites and having a coworker message you. usually we exchange our identities and leave it there. i actaully never find out if we're attracted to each other - sometimes i am a little bit, but not enough to pursue it. better off leaving some things unsaid.
 
Why would it be awkward?---You said you are out---you think he's into you?
 
ok i have answers, lol

1. Hes cute, but kinda fem and it turns me way off, but he has a hot ass, and I would fuck him, but thats about it.

2. He might be into me, if feel like at work he touches my hand and brushes up against me unnecessarily. like i said i would fuck him. hehe

3. he figured out who i was by noticing I lived in Freeport, and he asked what i was doing and i said homework in my dorm at UNE. And he put it together real fast. Plus hes on facebook like 24/7 and saw that i posted i was "changing my life" so yea, lol

i think that covers all the questions, lol well see what happens in about 7 hours when im at work:)
 
Luka said:
ok i have answers, lol

1. Hes cute, but kinda fem and it turns me way off, but he has a hot ass, and I would fuck him, but thats about it.
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I know there have been other threads about the "fem" thing. I'm not fem (at least I don't think I am) but have a real close friend that is. The interesting thing is that when I first met him 10+ years ago... I noticed it. Now... it doesn't matter at all and I actually don't see it--at all. He is just a great guy. Is he different than me...yep, thank God! So either he butched up, or I grew up!

Since you sound like your willing to fuck him...take a few minutes and see if he is a good guy. You may get a friend or more plus...potentially a good fuck!

Sorry for the lecture:kiss:
 
lols, yea i decided today hes not even fuckable, lol hes just odd, too skinny and hes kinda stuck up and too mature, hes only 20 and seems like 40. So... NO DEAL!!! haha
 
Luka said:
lol, i didnt mean that(techniclly im not into the whole daddy thing, lol) but i meant what u would expect of a 40 year old.... whatever, lols
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I didn't take it personally. But don't knock it until you've tried it. Son. :p
 
It'll only be awkward if you let it be awkward. I've run into friends and coworkers on manhunt before too. It's actually kind of fun because you both know the other is a big whore ;) j/k
 
Well, Luka, I think that when you make it clear he just isn't up to your standards, he'll get the message.

Just tell him he's too skinny, too stuck up and not fuckable. see if there's any awkwardness then.
 
Just because two people are gay doesn't mean when they run into each other, they take off their clothes and start fucking. I work with at least five other gay guys, and I've never slept with any of them. But that doesn't make things awkward - even had we run into each other on manhunt. You just have something new to talk about with him. "Find anything worthwhile last night?"

Lex
 
So you didn't even have a picture and he still knew who you were? Was your nickname a giveaway?
 
Neji said:
So you didn't even have a picture and he still knew who you were? Was your nickname a giveaway?
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no, it said i lived in freeport, and he knew i lived there. Then when he asked what i was doing i said, homework in my dorm. Then he said, in freeport? and i said no at UNE is Biddeford. And he just put it together....
 
If you don't want to fuck him - then don't.

Your reasons are your business and no one elses - including his.

I don't know if I've posted this before or not but one time when I was about 20, this guy in his late 40's messaged me through some gay site or another for a hook up.

At that time I wasn't into older guys and told him that.

He blathered on about me not knowing what I was a missing so I simply ask him...if older guys are so great, why are you after a 20 y/o?

I never heard from him again.
 
nsguy2 said:
If you don't want to fuck him - then don't.

Your reasons are your business and no one elses - including his.

I don't know if I've posted this before or not but one time when I was about 20, this guy in his late 40's messaged me through some gay site or another for a hook up.

At that time I wasn't into older guys and told him that.

He blathered on about me not knowing what I was a missing so I simply ask him...if older guys are so great, why are you after a 20 y/o?

I never heard from him again.
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haha, yea old guys keep doing that to me too, i just dont answer them anymore, its kinda creepy.....
 
I completely understand what you're saying.

I wasn't into guys my age (36) when I was 20 but I sure as hell am now and have no regrets about waiting to do it

When I was 20 I was enjoying guys around my age but to each his own, I guess.

What I'm saying is that just because someone may want you, it doesn't mean that you're under any obligation to oblige them.


Oh yeah, remember that's a two-way street :)

Keep that in mind.
 
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