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SonOfSlobone

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Ask yourself, would he have told you about these other guys if you hadn't confronted him? If the answer is no, you've got a problem. If it's all innocent, why was he keeping it a secret?

The two of you need to have a serious talk and you need to do some serious thinking. Make sure you both understand where the boundaries are in your relationship. You need to re-commit to each other or things are going to go downhill fast. Long-distance relationships are hard enough even when you have trust and honesty between you.
 
He defines fun as going out doing stuff but nothing more so you either trust him or you don't. You need to remember that your 300 miles away and life doesn't stop until you see him again. Perhaps it is time you worked out what you want in the relationship and tell him so you can work out a suitable arrangement or move on.
 
Yeah, Manhunt. That's where guys go just to make friends. Uh huh.

You've got a decision to make. If you want a monogamous, committed relationship, you're going to have to find a way to be less than 300 miles away. Or you're going to have to start dating guys more your age.
 
Your bf doesn't sound like he is ready for a committed relationship. His age probably has a lot to do with that. Even if he is a great guy, your timing my doesn't appear to be right.
 
The phrase "Without trust you have nothing." can be interpreted two ways.

It could mean that you are supposed to trust your boyfriend to do the right thing as a feature of the relationsip.

But it can also mean that because your boyfriend has given you reason not to trust him, then your relationship is on shaky ground.

The second interpretation fits the situation.

This guy is 19. He's cheated in the past. And it's pretty apparent that he's cheating now.

And what's worse, he's lying to you about it.

Sorry, but you can do better. And you should do better.
 
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