Bareback, double standerd?

[jaxon29]

Yes, I'm glad someone pointed out that BB isn't the only behavior that's risky. There's been much discussion lately condemning it, but what about all this cum eating. That's risky too, but it's all over the gay and straight sites. I don't think anyone has been condemning that.

However, on the topic of BB sex, I think the models have the responsibility to 'just say no'. Just as many won't bottom or do various things, they need to state a position on that also. Ultimately it's their decision, no one else's. They can always make a solo j/o video and they won't have to take a stand.

 

[lyconthrope]

Very true, and too much of the focus and controversy is always on gay porn, straight porn is just as bad! I know it can seen as them advocating what they are doing but people out there in the real world ALSO have the responsebility to say no, we can't blame media/move industries for decisions we choose to make, more education is needed on the subject.

sadly because models are so young they need the money and will sometimes feel pressured into doing whatever is asked of them

 

[lyconthrope]

which is a shame, people have become complacement about the issue, makes me sad

 

[Raven03]

It is sad that some people have that "I'll get it eventually" attitude. With that said not all bareback models are positive or have that attitude. Some comapanys only have negative models however it is still risky because there are other STDs you can get. Other company's deal with both and keep each group separated.

 

[lyconthrope]

I know, people assume that medical science will save them and eventually disease will just be so prolific that it simply wont be the case.
I know that 99% of sites/companies probably stop using a model if they test positive for anything but you never get told these things, you are always left to assume the worst.....which most people often do

 

[lyconthrope]

^^^ very true, not enough is done in schools to make sure kids are properly equiped with at least common sense

 

[sexybi]

well i maybe 18 but i think at colleges or even schools they should give out free comdoms or much cheaper.
i know so many teenage mums, i know when your having sex for first time its unlikely you'll get aids but if your having sex with women they could get pregnant and there is alot of teenage mums.
I read somewhere that 75% of 15 year olds here in england have had sex. so i doubt it would encourage kids to have sex by giving out free comdoms.
nearly everytime i have sex with girls i have a comdom if i ever have sex with a guy somewhen i'll make sure its 100%.
i do think atleast with young people they should have somewhere you can access comdoms for free or quite cheaper...

sezix xxx

 

[lyconthrope]

^^^not sure I agree with this >>>>> "i know when your having sex for first time its unlikely you'll get aids" thats kinda like saying you wont get pregnant your first time if your standing up, urban myth I think

and there actually ARE places to go for free condoms, birth control pills, morning after pills and free medical adive, the problem is that young people arent told where to find these places, and many seem to think they dont need them

 

[sexybi]

if its both your first time how can you get aids if you either don't have it?

 

[JNewYork]

i know a 20 year old who got AIDS his first time.

the virus doesn't infect you by saying, Oh, this guy has been fucked before so let's infect him as opposed to a virgin.

getting fucked in the ass causes tears in the opening that cause tiny bleeding. the semen getting mixed with the blood is the easiest way to catch HIV.

use condoms and be smart at all times.

 

[lyconthrope]

some people are born with the HIV virus, it can be passed to your partner even if its your first time, and just because its the first time for one person doesnt mean it is for the other.
sex should be safe ALL the time, there are other STD's out there too, the risk isnt just AIDS and pregnancy

1st time.....50th time.....doesnt matter, there is always a risk, be smart kiddies

 

[TheTrish]

Hi! Condomless sex is a risky behavior and not for me. But it is HOT to watch! hehe Just as skateboarding in the Florida Turnpike is risky, but I'll watch! LOL

T

 

[Raven03]

if its both your first time how can you get aids if you either don't have it?

If you both don't have it then you won't get it however as others have said there are other infections you can get. So unless your in a monogamous couple that get tested like your supposed to wrap it up.

 

[lyconthrope]

The virus just looks for a place it can enter your body.
Think of it like this, your body is a door. A condom keeps the door closed (but like any door has tiny cracks under it). However, if you keep your door wide open (no condom) then any annoying person can come and bother you (a virus, bacterial infection, etc).

Now, viruses can be found in bodily fluid, so if you swallow cum (or even pre-seminal fluid [pre-cum])... you can easily catch the virus, just as easy as barebacking. I hope this helps you understand, all a virus needs is a way to entire your body (same with bacterial infections).

Oh, and one other thing... with HIV, once it's in your body... it can just stay there and relax until something triggers it to go crazy. I'll keep using an analogy, to help this make sense. It'll sit in your body like an army captain, and it will start planting troops EVERYWHERE (billions of troops, baby viruses) in your body. Then one day it all of a sudden will decide to start building up tanks, and then use them on your body's cells. It can take a long time for this to happen (up to 10 years even!).

Very explained I salute you

its also important to remember that while this virus is laying in wait in your body you endanger others if you continue to have unprotected sex

 

[lyconthrope]

Yeah, and quite a number of people don't realize the severity of this... that's why HIV is such a huge problem. It really is a pandemic.

it gets hushed up a lot, and when it is dealt with its done so in such a way that it makes younger people especially think its not that bad.
either that or some people seem to think that sex is the only/most common way to transmit the disease, some serious education is needed i think