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Bath houses?

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My friends all did bathhouses before me. I started going a few years ago and love it. It's a great place to explore other men's bodies because some only want to touch/jo, some just glory holes, whatever. Everyone respects your wishes on how far you want to go. If you have more than one in your area they may appeal to differenent types and you should check that out before you go. I got a friend to start and now he's a bathhouse addict!
 
I recommended it. Especially if you can get to a Steamworks location. I would like to get up under some of that "steamed heat" myself at Toronto Steamworks, but I first need to try to lose that 15 or so pounds I've gained through the winter. I got as far as the check in counter and looked at all those hardbodied boys, and went right back out the way I came in. I'm able, but not ready. It's a crying shame! LOL! LOL!
 
Sure, go. Have a good time. Just remember to play safe, and don't feel pressured to do anything you don't feel like doing. You can always say "no", and there's a dozen other horny guys waiting in line behind that one who would be more than happy to play by your terms. :)

Lex
 
When I was single I used to go about once every week or two for about a year. The one I went to in St. Louis had a clothing optional outdoor pool, workout gym, sauna, steam room, snack area, TV area, the whole thing. They also had several discrete "commons" areas and "dressing rooms" that also had a single bed in them. As these places go, it was pretty nice.

I had some good times there, but as Lex said, you have to just use common sense and not feel pressured into anything, nor get swept up in the (horny) moment.

What's good about those places is that you can cruise and explore pretty safely, as long as you keep your head about you and decide what you will and won't do. It's not like cruising bookstores or mall johns where you are taking huge risks (safety and legal) in public places.

I met some pretty nice people there over the months.

Good luck and have fun. Report back in and let us know how it went and what happened. Details, please. LOL
 
Remember though a bathhouse is just for sex and that's it. My view about bathhouses is conflicted. A part of me feels bathhouses are good because it allows gay men to express our sexuality. Another side of me feels bathhouses compensate for the feelings of loneliness and not a good way to interact with other people.
 
I agree with the view of not going alone to a bathhouse. Sometimes going with a friend can actually be fun because you can look out for each other. Also, you can meet up and talk afterwards. In addition, sometimes going to a bathhouse with a friend can make a person feel more comfortable then being alone. Bathhouses can be very unfriendly because the men there are vulnerable they are in a rare social space to explore their homosexuality.
 
I did not even know that bathouses still existed. There are none by me that I know of. The closest I get to a place to have sex is a couple of the adult bookstores in the area - and that is not that safe which is why I have not been in a while.
 
I have gone to the one in my town for several years: www.steamportland.com

Yes, practice safe techniques which they do enforce here. I like it cause you as a person can be in total control of what you want to do or not to do.

Enjoy. I have blogged about my experiences there, so read more in my blogs on here if interested.
 
The bathhouses in Toronto tend to be very clean, professionally managed, and well enough accepted by the general populace that the entrances are not hidden. It is kind of funny though when non-gays have to enter a bathhouse for various reasons: plumbers, construction workers, EMTs (when guys pass out from the heat in the saunas or overdo it in the gym). These people go in there and do their jobs, ignoring all the fucking and sucking going on in plain view around them. The poor plumber was working away on the drain underneath one showerhead while two guys fucked like mad underneath another one, in the same room!
 
They are more fun than the circus.
 
>>>They are more fun than the circus.

Having found the circus to be extremely depressing, I find this to be rather faint praise. :)

Lex
 
As gay man I aways wanted to explore the inside of bath house. In 2006 made my first trip to the CLUB in St. Louis and have enjoyed the facility on several occasions. Aslo been to the WORKS in Indianapolis.
 
rareboy said:
They are more fun than the circus.
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..but strangely akin...

OP

1). Play safe or you will get a nasty STD. (Make sure you have condoms before you start fucking).

2). Don't take anything you can't do without. (Leave your valuables at home).

3). Enjoy.
 
7 month old thread... just sayin'...
 
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