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Being with 1 guy only,

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How many of you all here have ONLY BEEN with 1 guy...reason I ask is it came up during dinner with some friends that said they could never be with just 1 guy. And why did I not see more guy's back then..

Backround for me: I met my honey in 1984 in San Diego I was 18 he 24. We met and nothing happen that day/night. Next day went to dinner had some beers at his place and got buzzed and had my first hot man sex that day. I never left his place and we began our lifes together ever since.

Now I was not gay then, I actually had a g/f at time, I'm sure i must have been curious about guys but never did anything. Called it off with gf and never saw her again.

That brings us to now 26+ yrs together and we love each other very much. He is the first guy give me -bj, fuck me, rim, do all that mean nasty stuff. And since day two of having sex he makes me cum hands free while fucking me all the time with a sensation like no other...:sex:

So, could you be with just one (1) guy??????? How many of you could or could not..???
 
I could be with just one man and I envy the relationship you have with your partner.
 
I met my honey in 1983, but we were both older than you and your partner and already had sexual histories. I was married with two children. Even with all of that we were still able to provide some "firsts" for each other.
 
I could be with only 1 guy if I could find him. I've had a bf but nothing really happened beside j/o and grinding. I'm a weird case though because I could be happy poly or mono.
 
I've been with more than one guy, so I don't know what it's like to be with 1 guy only for life.

The idea of being monogamous for the rest of my life seems overwhelming to me, to be honest.

I think we'd have to open the relationship up at some point, but who knows really. I may not care as much about sex when I get older. I don't know.
 
.....does he have a brother? Do you have a brother?

I just ended a five year relationship that had nothing to do with sex, but everything to do with compulsion and control.

I take no fault on others, but I myself must have the inner peace that I feel with monogamy. Now I'm back in the dating scene: Hate It.
 
The biggest single reason why I enjoy monogamy is because it allows people to experience love and lust together.

Before I met Mr. Bankside, most people I've ever come across who were looking for casual dating or alternative sexual arrangements were actually happy about the idea that they'd found a way to experience one or the other separately. That never appealed to me.

I had a few limited fooling around "playing doctor" experiences when I was a kid. And I got naked with a guy when I came out, but I called it off before we really got anywhere. He wanted to replace our friendship with a romp in the hay.

There's only one guy I've done it all with, and only one guy who has seen the look on my face, looked into my eyes when he's making me cum. And for the cynics among you, that does not mean I went through a glory hole phase. LOL. He's it.

He had a similar background of restraint. We discussed our history & health when we got together but to be honest it didn't seem like very good conversation compared to getting to know each other so I don't have all the details.

I like the privacy and uniqueness of our relationship. It is important to me, but it is actually not the most important thing. Actually even the monogamy doesn't directly matter to me so much as the ability to have a relationship with some depth to it.

I'm not cut out for quick flings. And I think "meaningless relationships" actually are unintentionally meaningful, but not in the way the people involved would hope for.
 
But for me, I'm talking really just 1 guy. He was and is my first only guy ever.

I had been with 2 gf but that was when I was 16 and 18. Then I just jump into his arms and there e are instant love, at least for us it was. But as I said some friends asked me way would I just have choosen just one guy.

My only answer is -- he was all that I needed. And of course the way he fucks me is out of this world....
 
monogamy is for straight people... i plan to sleep with as many guys as possible in my lifetime
 
I'm still a virgin in the strictest sense of the word at 26. Being with 1 guy only is my dream, but I realize it's highly unlikely. I would love to find a cute sweet guy on the first try, get married, and have a wonderful "happily ever after" life.
 
The next guy could always be the forever one but I have no plans of settling down. I see no reason why I can't be a total slut with just one person.
 
I wish I am that lucky. Unfortunately, I am like most people, playing the dating/hooking up game until I find my guy.
 
I know I can't be with just 1 guy for the rest of my life...as I have been with a few guys already.
 
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