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Bestfriend 3some...Questions?

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Ok a couple weekends ago when I was at the bar with one of my best friends there was just something he said that has been stuck in my mind since then.

First off I believe that im bi because I find guys more attractive but haven’t ever done anything with a dude. So my friend I always believe was straight because he has fucked a lot of girls and would never question him about it.

So back to that night, it was just me and him sitting there drinking after our other buddies left and we were talking about him coming to visit me at school. Well my roommate is gay and he said that he was afraid that my roommate would think that he is gay. So I asked him why he would ever think that but he never gave me an answer, then he got to saying that everyone in the bar probably thought we both were gay because we were two guys at a bar sitting by themselves talking. I just laughed it off and dropped the subject. Later, a friend texted me seeing what was going on and I told her that I was at a bar with my friend and that she should come and I joked to her that if she came we could have a 3some. Her reply was hell yeah to the 3some but she was away drinking at a different school. Well my friend was reading the text too and he said damn if she were in town I would have so done it with you. This completely shocked me and I was like are you for real? He said yes, that he had done it before with a guy and girl.

So my question is what is should I make of this...Is he bi and why is he so worried about people questioning him about being gay? It’s just over the last 3 years that I’ve know him there have just been things that have been stuck in my head too. When on vacation we shared a bed, which was no big deal and that’s why I never thought it was weird for him ask me if I was going to sleep in his bed if I stayed at his house, until I woke up twice to him spooning me. Once after a party when I was too drunk to go home and woke up him all by me and his head on my pillow and the second time when we both were drunk again but this time our buddies were there to make fun of us because he was curled up by me with his arm around me. So what should I make of this?

Also if the situation would happen to come up again id be tempted to go along with it because I have kind of always wonder how amazing he is in bed because of all the girls he’s been with. Its just I wouldn’t want to do something that id later regret because he is one of my best friends and I care a lot about him. Thanks for reading about all my problems…
 
i kinda think he is, but then again u two sound really close and I'd expect him to come clean wiht you if he was.


on a side note, I did a 3some wiht my at the time and his str8 (but open) best friend and it was raelly fun
 
yeah, he could have just meant he was all for a 3some, not nessicerally sex with you.
 
I'm not saying he's gay but I think he's pushing the subject to see how you will react to him being curious or bi. I think he's shown you enough for you to suspect something. Bring it up, I wouldn't recommend you doing anything with him cause it could ruin was sounds like a really good friendship.

Just be a friend and see if he needs some advice or a supportive shoulder.
 
You woke up and he was spooning you?
 
natedogg323 said:
I'm not saying he's gay but I think he's pushing the subject to see how you will react to him being curious or bi. I think he's shown you enough for you to suspect something. Bring it up, I wouldn't recommend you doing anything with him cause it could ruin was sounds like a really good friendship.

Just be a friend and see if he needs some advice or a supportive shoulder.
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WE HAVE A WINNER HERE PEOPLE!!!
 
He sounds like a really cool friend. I'd worry if you did do anything sexual with him , he'd freak out.

And you've never done anything with a guy before too! How do you think you will feel afterwards?
 
Thanks for your guys views... It somewhat helps out with the situation..Its just im unsure about it but the only way id ever be willing to do it would be if he started it...so yah..I dont think that it would be that weird because somehow i just get the weird feeling that he would want to do it just as much as i would have...or maybe that is just what im wishing for?
 
FRZBGLFR said:
2 guys and a girl doesn't mean the other guy is bi. I would tread carefully. Let him make the move, not you stay in the friend zone until you know for sure.
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I don't know about all that. No real hetrosexual male would want to have another male in the bedroom while he is having sexual intercourse with a female.

It is a unconscious psychological threat to a heterosexual male involving sexual intercourse with a female. It basically amounts to another male is encroaching on his territory, thus seen as a threat.
 
TierraSimms said:
I don't know about all that. No real hetrosexual male would want to have another male in the bedroom while he is having sexual intercourse with a female.

It is a unconscious psychological threat to a heterosexual male involving sexual intercourse with a female. It basically amounts to another male is encroaching on his territory, thus seen as a threat.
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That all depends on your... well, I'll call it "microculture". There are places where friends have sex in the same room and no one makes a deal of it at all; in fact, I knew some kids who wondered what was wrong when a couple went off to a room by themselves!

Historically, soldiers and warriors often shared a room when having sex. To me that suggests that if you're comfortable with your manliness, and with people with a fair level of trust, there's no threat.
 
Honestly a three some with two "straight guys" and a girl means that the guys take turns on the chick not that all three people fuck each other
 
I think you are thinking too far into this you were drunk and probally horny, plus I know whwn my friensds and I go outs its a "do what you want bu it dosnt leave this night policy"
 
Happend to me once like that,.. a m8 ( str8 ) & his girlfriend,.. the 3-some was sort of expected, as we'd discussed ground rules wrt what I could & couldn't do with his girlfriend, ...the 3 of us got drunk , watched some porn. got naked & we just sort of got going at it.
I was sucking her pussy,, she was sucking his cock,.. I moved up & started sucking her tits (really I wanted to have a close watch of her sucking his cock),...
next thing I know, his cock is in my mouth & she's yelling "yeah, go on,. suck it, suck it," :bj: ,... not long before he's shooting his load in my mouth & I'm loving it,...(!)

Still great friends with the pair of them (many years on) but unfortunately it never happened again :(

I you get the chance for a 3-some,.. go for it, get drunk (it helps in lots of ways) & see what happens,.. if you get off with him,... great, if not, well just enjoy having her. :sex:
 
OK...heres an update if u guys wanna help me work this out in my head??

So late one night last week when me and my buddy talked the reason why he called me got me feeling weird... He was real drunk and was saying that there was this hottest girl in his bedroom that he was making out with but he just got up and left...he wanted to know what was wrong with him and i just told him that maybe he was growing up and doesn't want to hook up with random girls or that he is just gay. He just said that he thinks he changing because this is the 3rd girls hes turned down this week...So this has only added to my confusion, any ideas if hes trying to tell me something or am i just trying to make something out of this and shouldn't
 
Three in a week?!
Most guys I know would have been happy to have a chance at three girls in a school year....

I think you're making something out of it; all he's trying to tell you is that he's confused about his own feelings.
Maybe he is just growing up.
Maybe he is gay.
But what he wants from you is a listening ear.


He ought to be a bit politer to the gals, though -- just walking out is rude.
 
I think if a straight guy is wanting to try something with another guy, having a female in the mix makes it that much easier for him. For some, but for others, they may feel better being alone with the guy. It may be the same for a gay guy who wants to try being with a woman, he might feel better having another man there too, or not.
 
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