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bf and i not having sex

gruffy

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My boyfriend and I have been going out for over a month and we have already used the i love you to each other. im happy to say it to him and i know he is feels the same. the only thing thats wrong is after saying this to each other we havent had sex yet and i just dont understand why we havent. i have tried but anytime we try he stops and just wants to spoon. is there anything i can do?
 
Do you mean that you had sex before the I-love-you's, but not since, or that you have never had sex?
 
Yeah, what's the history and what's your age?

I don't think it's really ALL that uncommon for people to have dated for a month and not had sex yet.

But if you've been trying and he won't, you need to talk to him about that.

He could have body issues - I dated a guy briefly who would not turn the lights on because he though his body was unattractive.

He could just want to wait a bit longer. He could be a nervous virgin - we can't really say without more context.
 
I severely doubt there is any "love" in your relationship and it is purely infatuation which seems to have worn off.

There also seems to be a disconnect in sex drives which is another issue that will not easily absolve itself.
 
Yeah how old are you guys, I mean i usally have sex after 3rd or 4th date. not to mention say "I love you" doesnt come to like 3-6 months after dating. duno thats just me though. are you his first boyfriend.
 
We need more context here. Have you done everything except anal sex yet? A month isn't a very long time, especially to say you love someone.
 
You've only been with him for a month? Well I guess in gay time that's 4 years.

In my opinion that's still friendship stage. Sex is important in a relationship I agree, but there is nothing wrong with waiting for the right time.

If you are really persistent, Try doing something kinky to persuade him. Dinner and a movie, followed by candle lit chocolate syrup rubbing in the bathroom. lol. you get what I mean. :)
 
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