Bi Bf and Women

[Cafe69]

My friend's bf is an ass. He said something along the lines of missing how easy it was when he was having sex with chicks. Saying this because he gets tired of the prep & anal douching that his bottom partners have to do. I told my friend to dump him, not because he's bi but because he's an ass. Thoughts ?

 

[Frenchie]

I admit not to speak English enough indeed to understand what you want to say. I can't thus answer your question. Sorry.

 

[Cafe69]

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[Cafe69]

That was meant to be an eye roll, I would like real feedback. The sarcastic thing is so old.

 

[AlmondMilk]

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The other gif isn't working...

And to answer your thread, well you told him your concerns. It's up to him whether or not he breaks up. the anal prep and douching can be a pain. But if he doesn't want to do that anymore then sucks for him. I think as long as he treats your friend well, then it's fine.

 

[broadshoulder]

I admit not to speak English enough indeed to understand what you want to say. I can't thus answer your question. Sorry.

I am not surprised it is very bad English. Some posters assume other people will understand everything they post without it being written out properly. So less of the eyerollls please, and more concise wording.

 

[bankside]

I admit not to speak English enough indeed to understand what you want to say. I can't thus answer your question. Sorry.

My friend's bf is an ass. He said something along the lines of missing how easy it was when he was having sex with chicks. Saying this because he gets tired of the prep & anal douching that his bottom partners have to do. I told my friend to dump him, not because he's bi but because he's an ass. Thoughts ?

«Le gars de mon ami est un trou de cul. Il disait (plus ou moins) que c'était tellement facile de baiser les nanas et il manque ça. Car ce n'est pas nécéssaire qu'elles se douchent l'anus comme tous ces partenaires masculins. J'ai conseiller à mon ami de lui laisser, non pas parce qu'il est bisexuel, mais parce'que c'est un con. Tes pensés?» (Et puis il s'indigne contre toi parce que tu ne comprends pas ce qu'il a dit bien que son anglais est beacoup moins agréable que mon français. Joli, non?)

 

[Cafe69]

I am not surprised it is very bad English. Some posters assume other people will understand everything they post without it being written out properly. So less of the eyerollls please, and more concise wording.

Oh please, its not a dissertation but its understandable. He was obviously being smart, Ive seen him answer to worse.

Thanks Almond Milk

 

[FanofFiction]

I don't think that the bi bf's comment was wrong. He prefers what he prefers, who are we to judge that? Maybe we take an unfair amount of offence to it because we are gay men and the stated preference puts us below women... in one man's opinion. Would we find it equally offensive if a bi guy said he prefers gay men to women for whatever factual reason? Probably not.

It does take longer for gay men to prep for sex than women. Personnally, I think the wait is worth it.

I don't see any wrong here.

 

[Comrad]

why break up with him. he makes a very valid point. i felt and said the same exact thing. ever had a hard on in the mornings. ever wanted to fuck during your class breaks. what about at random times during the night. i can understand where hes coming from. it sucks when youve gota prepare when your waning it now.

 

[Cafe69]

I don't think that the bi bf's comment was wrong. He prefers what he prefers, who are we to judge that? Maybe we take an unfair amount of offence to it because we are gay men and the stated preference puts us below women... in one man's opinion. Would we find it equally offensive if a bi guy said he prefers gay men to women for whatever factual reason? Probably not.

It does take longer for gay men to prep for sex than women. Personnally, I think the wait is worth it.

I don't see any wrong here.

why break up with him. he makes a very valid point. i felt and said the same exact thing. ever had a hard on in the mornings. ever wanted to fuck during your class breaks. what about at random times during the night. i can understand where hes coming from. it sucks when youve gota prepare when your waning it now.

I know, I just felt really bad for my friend. I thought that it was an insensitive comment to make. Some things are better left un-said.

 

[ChicagoNormalGuy]

Wow.

Did the boyfriend say this to your friend? It's a very insensitive thing to say to someone you are in a relationship with. "I miss having sex with people that aren't you because it was easier than sex with you." Is it a reason to dump the guy? Don't know. I don't know the guys involved.

 

[Cafe69]

Wow.

Did the boyfriend say this to your friend? It's a very insensitive thing to say to someone you are in a relationship with. "I miss having sex with people that aren't you because it was easier than sex with you." Is it a reason to dump the guy? Don't know. I don't know the guys involved.

Yeah he did. Then he apologized and said that he didnt mean to hurt his feelings. Maybe it isnt cause for a break up, but I just think that it was rude to say.

 

[Comrad]

I know, I just felt really bad for my friend. I thought that it was an insensitive comment to make. Some things are better left un-said.

i am consistently told i am insenestive. so to me i honestly see no problem with it being said. he said it and now down the road he will not be surprised by anything down the road. no break up. but in a few months time--maybe a year or less they should have a talk because if he feels like this now something is going to give sooner than later.

 

[Frenchie]

«Le gars de mon ami est un trou de cul. Il disait (plus ou moins) que c'était tellement facile de baiser les nanas et il manque ça. Car ce n'est pas nécéssaire qu'elles se douchent l'anus comme tous ces partenaires masculins. J'ai conseiller à mon ami de lui laisser, non pas parce qu'il est bisexuel, mais parce'que c'est un con. Tes pensés?» (Et puis il s'indigne contre toi parce que tu ne comprends pas ce qu'il a dit bien que son anglais est beacoup moins agréable que mon français. Joli, non?)

Très joli, en effet ! Thanks a lot my dear bankside