Bi-curious guy needs advice

[Columboy]

Funny choice of words there lil feller. "Warped"?...on a site/ forum that doesnt discriminate? Love big tranny dick too. Hell, maybe even yours. Just dont wanna kiss u. Too far out there? What ever will I do? When I came to this site, I wasnt looking for attention. I just wanted to talk to other guys that like looking at cock, maybe sucking a cock.."Straight/Bisexual seemed like a good place to start.

I there with you all.

 

[joshtrainer30]

So I'm straight, have a gf, and am very bi-curious. I love watching gay porn almost as much as straight porn, I actually probably watch more gay. I've been this way for about 10 years and my bi-curious cravings are only getting more stronger. I never did any real experimenting while in college or in my younger years, and now that I'm older it's not real easy to do. I do know that I want to be with women, but for some reason I really want to mess around with guys (just a physical thing with the guys). Will these cravings go away or do I need to try and fulfill my fantasy to see what it's like to be with a man? It's consuming all my thoughts and is only getting worse. Any recommendations what to do?

I'm straight but I have always had a fantasy about dropping my trousers in front of another man. I have never wanted to act this out in reality because it would only made sense if the man was gay and he might get frustrated if I didn't want to go any further. I have posted pictures of myself in my briefs on this site and that seems to have scratched the itch

 

[cuteguyincali]

If these cravings wont go away now, wait till you try the cock and like it. You're in for a hell of a mind fuck!!! I was in the same boat when I was single so I decided to experiment and let me tell you that sex with men was MIND BLOWING. So much so that I wanted more because the mere thought of a man dicking me down and using my body for his pleasure was the most SPECTACULAR, MIND BLOWING, FIREWORKS in the sky feeling EVERT! And cumming together and and feeling all the love and passion was insane. I am now married to a woman (which I love pussy too and couldn't live without out) but sometimes in bed I have flashbacks of those times and I wish that I could bring back every single second of those experiences. I don't regret it for one moment. BUT I STILL CRAVE IT and I know those craving will never go away.

So be careful. Because if you end up liking it you're going to be hooked!

 

[imariver]

So I'm straight, have a gf, and am very bi-curious. I love watching gay porn almost as much as straight porn, I actually probably watch more gay. I've been this way for about 10 years and my bi-curious cravings are only getting more stronger. I never did any real experimenting while in college or in my younger years, and now that I'm older it's not real easy to do. I do know that I want to be with women, but for some reason I really want to mess around with guys (just a physical thing with the guys). Will these cravings go away or do I need to try and fulfill my fantasy to see what it's like to be with a man? It's consuming all my thoughts and is only getting worse. Any recommendations what to do?

I didn't bother to read thru all the responses, but I'm sure that there is a lot of good advice here. TRUE STORY . . . Back when I was younger, I met a guy on line, he was probably twenty five years older than me. As he explained it to me, he had an encounter, (his one and only) with another guy when he was in his teens. Now, in his late sixties, he told me that in the past several years, the desire to be with another guy was all he could think about. He also told me that if he didn't fulfill this desire, he knew that he would always regret it and the desire would never go away, until he acted on it. We hooked up times after that, one of the nicest guys I've ever met.

 

[jumpup2]

I didn't bother to read thru all the responses, but I'm sure that there is a lot of good advice here. TRUE STORY . . . Back when I was younger, I met a guy on line, he was probably twenty five years older than me. As he explained it to me, he had an encounter, (his one and only) with another guy when he was in his teens. Now, in his late sixties, he told me that in the past several years, the desire to be with another guy was all he could think about. He also told me that if he didn't fulfill this desire, he knew that he would always regret it and the desire would never go away, until he acted on it. We hooked up times after that, one of the nicest guys I've ever met.

^this
There's been some judgmental posts here, which is fine. You are in a safe place at JUB - the perfect place for this question.
I have read every post and for what it's worth: I'm straight/curious/maybe even bi, but if I have the urge I'm gonna move on it. Some of the best sex I've had is with women twice my age. It was unhurried/desired/fulfilling. If I ever feel really bi I'm going to jump. [My situation is complicated - but I say go]

 

[imariver]

^this
There's been some judgmental posts here, which is fine. You are in a safe place at JUB - the perfect place for this question.
I have read every post and for what it's worth: I'm straight/curious/maybe even bi, but if I have the urge I'm gonna move on it. Some of the best sex I've had is with women twice my age. It was unhurried/desired/fulfilling. If I ever feel really bi I'm going to jump. [My situation is complicated - but I say go]

As previously posted on another thread, I prefer sex with other guys and I've been having sex with other guys for the better part of my adult life. I really enjoy it, it's a lot less demanding, physically and mentally. You don't have to "Feel Really Bi" to have same sex, sex. After ten years, you should have "Jumped" by now. In any event, pick your partner very carefully, that very first time will be a big factor in the future. If and when you pick the right guy, you'll wonder why you waited so long. ........... BE SAFE TOO.

 

[Kyanimal]

LIFE is too short to get all caught up in what you may have been lead to believe you're "supposed" to do. What you are feeling is what you should try. If it isn't what you're 'meant' to do, you wouldn't be feeling it. It's the way you're built, and each of us are different. One size does NOT fit all.

However, I do have to add to always treat others with respect, care, and concern. And, of course, never intentionally harm anyone, including yourself. Those should be core 'givens' for all of us. We social animals do have basic responsibilities to ourselves, as well as to all others. Besides that, pursue Your dreams. Your decisions are Yours to make. All actions have consequences, including the ones you don't take. Your picture is Yours to paint.

 

[Shelby29]

I have posted pictures of myself in my briefs on this site and that seems to have scratched the itch

I'd love to scratch more than your itch

 

[texan_slant]

The cravings won't go away, esp if you find yourself watching more of the porn as time goes on.
My advice is that if you think you might want to be with a woman and you're not married yet, get it out of your system. You actually might find that you could end up being with a man!

You gotta live once, and with no regrets.